A Lot or a Little?
What you will—and won't—find in this book.
Readers will learn about gymnastics terms, art mediums, and the college-application process. The book should lead to conversations about unhealthy friendships, romantic relationships, and your family's beliefs about teen pregnancy and abortion.
The mature content and nuanced description of a codependent friendship in A Sense of the Infinite will encourage teen readers to examine their own friendships and stay true to themselves rather than cave in just because a friend wants to do one thing or another. Annabeth's journey shows how sometimes you grow away from friends to stay true to your own passions, interests, and hopes.
Positive Role Models
Annabeth slowly realizes she's overly dependent on Noe and that she doesn't have to do everything just because Noe tells her or encourages her to do it. Annabeth comes into herself and forges a couple of friendships apart from Noe that teach her friendships don't need to be all or nothing. Steven hurts himself but then finally comes to terms with his identity. Ava apologizes for her mistakes and how much she hurt Annabeth when they were younger.
Violence & Scariness
A character purposely cuts off his pinkie and has a history of clinical depression and attempted suicide. A couple of girls self-harm by purging. One of them covers up her eating disorder by telling people she's trying to rid herself of meat products she's accidentally consumed. A character finds out she was conceived via date rape and that she's the reason her mother didn't finish college.
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Sex, Romance & Nudity
A character details losing her virginity to someone she connected with for one night. The description focuses more on her feelings than the physical act. Because of the lack of adequate protection, the character ends up pregnant; she then chooses to have an abortion.
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Occasional strong language includes "f--k," "s--t," "bitch," "a--hole," "dickhead," "dick," and "babykiller."
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Products & Purchases
A few brands are mentioned in passing: Gatorade, Jack Daniel's, 7-Eleven, Greyhound, K-Mart.
Drinking, Drugs & Smoking
Underage characters drink mixed cocktails, beer and even get drunk at parties and dances.
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Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Hilary T. Smith's A Sense of the Infinite is a coming-of-age novel that handles some difficult issues, including teen pregnancy, rape, depression, eating disorders, and abortion. The author doesn't shy away from tackling tough subjects in a realistic way, such as the downsides of a friendship so close it's unhealthy for the protagonist or choosing to have sex with someone who isn't your boyfriend. There's a passage that describes the loss of virginity, but it's not graphic. A sexual encounter leads to pregnancy and an abortion. Teens drink at a party, and they occasionally use strong language ("f--k," "s--t," "a--hole," "dickhead"). This book offers plenty of conversation starters about everything from friendship and college choice to sex and pregnancy.
Is It Any Good?
A beautifully written coming-of-age story about the complexities of friendship, identity, and sexual awakening, A Sense of the Infinite is ideal for fans of intense contemporary YA. This isn't a light romantic comedy about senior-year BFFs and boyfriends; there's a lot that's hard to read about in Smith's books, whether it's grief and mental illness in Wild Awake or rape, abortion, and eating disorders here. But just because the book tackles tough issues doesn't mean it's grim. Smith imbues Annabeth's journey with humor (such as the fact that she and Steven have heart-to-hearts in public restrooms so they call each other "Pee Sisters") and plenty of wisdom, although usually that's in the form of advice from Annabeth's mother, cousin, and Steven.
The number of revelations in the book may feel a bit overwhelming at times, but Smith deftly manages not to cross over into melodrama with everything that's happening to Annabeth and her friends. Kudos to Smith for portraying Annabeth as someone uninterested in finding true love at 17. Annabeth's first sexual experience, for example, is dizzyingly romantic as it's happening but can't survive the light of day; she prefers the mythical nature of that one moment to the disappointing reality of attempting a second encounter. That kind of "no big deal" attitude about virginity and sex admittedly is not for every reader, but Annabeth is hardly the only high school senior to prefer the feeling of "right now" over the commonly propagated idea that high school romance can last forever. Ultimately, this is a story about struggling to define what makes you you -- even if that means separating from some people and finding others. It's a bittersweet testament to growing up and moving forward into that unknown future of adulthood.
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