All the Rage

Book review by
Sandie Angulo Chen, Common Sense Media
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Powerful story about an isolated rape victim's struggles.

Parents say

age 15+
Based on 1 review

Kids say

age 13+
Based on 1 review

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this book.

Educational Value

All the Rage will launch a number of discussions, from dealing with clique politics to surviving rape. Parents and teachers may want to take the opportunity to discuss issues about sexual violence, "slut shaming," bullying, and violence against women.

Positive Messages

Readers will learn the importance of believing girls and women who say they've been raped or assaulted and that it's wrong to shame them or assume that because they knew or liked or dated the person who assaulted them, they somehow were at fault. The book makes it clear how much support and help victims of sexual violence need and that people need to learn to be sensitive to those who say they've been assaulted.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Romy's mother and stepfather both love her and want to help, even though she shuts them out and refuses to tell them about her difficulties. Leon and Caro are a positive example of a loving brother-and-sister relationship, and Leon is patient and careful with Romy, even though she often lies to him. Romy is emotionally scarred and doesn't think anyone will be able to help her with her pain. She eventually realizes that others do mean her well and that it's OK to trust in those who love and care for you.

Violence

In addition to flashbacks to the rape that led to Romy's isolation, she is frequently bullied, usually physically: being tripped in PE; being jostled, pushed, and shoved in the halls; and so on. She gets into a physical confrontation with a female bully, and both end up bleeding from scratches. Romy is drugged, and someone writes "Rape Me" on her body before leaving her on the side of the road. A girl goes missing and may be dead. Romy's nearly raped a second time.

Sex

A rape survivor has romantic and sexual feelings about a new guy, but she's not sure whether she can do anything physical with him. They kiss and make out, but any time things progress to under-the-shirt touching, she freezes or asks him to stop (he does). Locker room and bathroom gossip sessions include discussions of sex and sex acts. Male athletes make vulgar jokes about which girls want to "ride" their "dicks" and who wants to get "f---ed." Romy remembers thinking about desiring her attacker before he raped her, of wanting his hands on her.

Language

Frequent: "f--k" (as both a term for sex and an exclamation), "s--t," "whore," "pussy," "a--hole," "dick," "c--t," "bitch," and more.

Consumerism

Cadillac Escalade, Ford Explorer, Pontiac, Chrysler New Yorker, Heineken.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Underage teens and adults drink, smoke cigarettes, and go to parties where the majority of folks get "wasted" and even do the drug GHB. A character gets drunk easily and vomits more than once.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Courtney Summers' All the Rage is a serious-issues book about a young woman who's a social outcast in her small town a year after accusing the sheriff's son of date rape. Mature teen readers (and adults) may find the heavy themes in the book difficult to process, but it's a powerful way to discuss rape and sexual abuse with teens who might otherwise think the issue doesn't affect them. There are disturbing scenes of sexual violence, self-harm, bullying, and cruelty. Very few people in the main character's life believe her, and she regularly suffers from harassment (both at the hands of other students and the town sheriff, father of the rapist). Language is frequently strong ("f--k," "s--t," "a--hole," "bitch," "whore," and so on), and there are a few kissing scenes and discussions of sex. Despite the intensely painful subject matter, All the Rage is a memorable addition to the list of young adult novels about sexual abuse.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byTheLittleDayDreamer August 20, 2018

Enlightening

I read this for the first time a little over a year ago, completely falling in love with it, I recommended it to a few friends, accidentally giving it to someon... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written bySomeoneyoudontk... April 19, 2018

Good....

obviously, something parents would probably not want their kids to read. But is a really good book. would recommend reading it.

What's the story?

In ALL THE RAGE, senior Romy Grey has spent a year as the social pariah of Grebe High School. After being date-raped by the local golden boy Kellan Turner (son of the small town's sheriff and its biggest CEO), she told people but was pressured not to file charges. Her accusation cost her everything, and a year later she's basically invisible except for the coat of blood-red lipstick and nail polish she wears every single day. The only bright spot in her life is her waitress job at a diner outside of town, the one place nobody knows about her past and where the handsome young cook looks at her with interest, not anger or disgust. Just as Romy begins to open herself up to the possibility of romance, a former friend goes missing, triggering Romy's thoughts about everything that's happened to her.

Is it any good?

Author Courtney Summers' unflinching look at the horror of not being believed after a rape is difficult to read. All the more so because Summers doesn't pander to readers by making Romy's violent encounter a run-in with a masked stranger. No, her attacker is the Big Man on Campus, a guy she openly liked and desired.

Romy's story arc doesn't come with pat solutions to the anxiety, isolation, and outright cruelty she has faced in the aftermath of accusing her rapist. Although she starts to fall for Leon, a 19-year-old graphic designer and part-time diner cook who does stop touching her when she asks him to, Romy struggles to overcome the shame she feels about her body. Terrible things happen to and around her; she isn't a senior with hopes of a good college and a vision for a sunny future. Nonetheless, Summers makes you ache for Romy's nearly perpetual sadness and cheer for her to find happiness and healing.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the importance of "issues" books and why they're helpful for teens to read, even if they've never dealt with those issues.

  • Why does the protagonist feel sorry for baby girls? Why does she think it would be better for someone to be dead than to be raped?

  • Discuss the relationship Romy has with her body. Is it healthy? How could she have been helped more? Why did she keep so much secret instead of telling the truth or asking for support?

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