Alvin Ho: Allergic to Girls, School, and Other Scary Things

Book review by
Matt Berman, Common Sense Media
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Gentle, humorous story of fearful boy.

Parents say

age 10+
Based on 2 reviews

Kids say

age 9+
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The parents' guide to what's in this book.

Violence & Scariness

A girl punches a boy in the jaw.


What parents need to know

Parents need to know that there is little to be concerned with here, aside from a girl punching a boy once.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of a 15 and 17-year-old Written byPNW TeacherMom July 3, 2010

Fun Book With Good Messages

A really fun book about an Asian boy with selective mutism. It involves some information about bullying and gangs which was really handled well. There is a gl... Continue reading
Adult Written bybryonybrooks February 17, 2009


its a really enjoyable book...very sentimental at times....i reccmmend it highly!!!
Kid, 9 years old September 17, 2012


Alvin has a real problem -- performance anxiety disorder -- though this is only mentioned once. Mostly it's treated lightly and with humor, but also realis... Continue reading
Kid, 10 years old March 16, 2011

for 10+ kids not for teenagers

i love it it is a good book for ages 10 and older

What's the story?

Alvin is afraid of lots of things: the dark, wasabi, elevators, kimchi, bridges -- but most especially school. He is so terrified by school that he has never been able to say a word there. This is especially surprising because he comes "from a long line of farmer-warriors who haven't had a scaredy bone in their bodies since 714 AD." Because of this fear he has no friends. There is a girl who is nice to him, but he's scared of girls too. But he's trying to learn to be a gentleman, just like his dad. Includes Alvin's humorous glossary.

Is it any good?

Alvin has a real problem -- performance anxiety disorder -- which is mostly it's treated lightly and with humor, but also realistically, as Alvin doesn't suddenly get cured. By the end of the book, while he has made (or accepted) a friend, he is still filled with fear. In life, Alvin would be very hard to get to know, but here, where we can hear both his inner and outer voice, he is a charmer.

In addition to Alvin's quirky personality, the book will delight readers in two other ways. The first is Alvin's loving and supportive, but also quirky, family, including an older brother who's reading his way through the encyclopedia, a younger sister who likes to dig holes, and especially his father, who is kind and understanding, and resorts to playing the piano when he's angry. The other is the mishmash cultural background. Alvin, a Chinese-American whose father delights in Shakespearean insults and old baseball cards, lives in Concord, Mass., home of the Minutemen, near the homes of Thoreau, Emerson, Alcott, and Hawthorne. These and many other diverse cultural references may send readers in search of more information about them. At the very least, they are sure to want to learn to swear Shakespeare-style.

From the Book:
I am not as big as Calvin, but I am bigger than Anibelly, who isn't a baby anymore but doesn't go to school yet. I am sort of nearly almost medium ... when I stand on tiptoe and stretch at the same time, I am finally almost visible in my class picture!

The fourth thing you should know about me is that I love Plastic Man, Wonder Woman, the Green Lantern, Concrete Man, Aquaman, King Henry V, and all the superheroes in the world. I know them from reading with my dad every night while my mom runs on the treadmill like a hamster on a wheel. My dad is a great reader for his age, which could be fifty or one hundred, it's hard to tell. He wears reading glasses and always puts one arm around me and his other arm around Anibelly and Calvin for support, on account of when you get to be that old, it is hard to do anything by yourself.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about Alvin's fears. Why is he so afraid? Why can't he overcome his fears? Why can't he speak in school? Why won't he talk to his therapist? Do you know any children like Alvin? Have you ever felt that way yourself?

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