
As Far As You'll Take Me
By JK Sooja,
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U.S. teen boy falls for Londoner in first-love gay romance.
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What's the Story?
In AS FAR AS YOU'LL TAKE ME, Marty is an exceptional oboe player with dreams of making a living playing music, but he also suffers from anxiety. Having failed an audition in London a year earlier, Marty heads back on his terms, eager to start a new life away from his not incredibly accepting hometown in Kentucky. Right away, Marty meets a cute boy named Pierce, and quickly they hit it off. Will Pierce turn out to be everything Marty hopes and dreams of? Or will Pierce turn out to be not what he claims to be?
Is It Any Good?
Phil Stamper's delightful second novel features an awkward but confident gay teen boy who bravely moves to another country in hopes of a freer and more comfortable life performing music. As Far As You'll Take Me is brave for championing a lead character who suffers from social anxiety that causes him to hide if things get too crazy, as well as from an eating disorder that causes him to pass out, nap constantly, and fret over the dietary info of everything he eats. (Hopefully, in the future, Stamper will be able to offer more in the way of how to deal with these conditions better, talk about them more, and live a better life despite them.) Still, Marty is incredibly self-reflexive and thoughtful about the ways in which others are feeling and thinking, for better and for worse. These ingredients make for a strong but unconventional lead character who's easy to get behind and root for.
The depth and fullness of the characters (including London itself) Marty encounters also impresses. There are varied characters who have clearly different personalities, backgrounds, and histories with other characters, which leads to different friendship dynamics and believable social politics. Add in the music school's politics of chair positionings and student "value," notable descriptions of London, Cardiff, Florence, and other locations, and character arcs that matter, and you have a deep and robust world for Marty to discover. Also, the book directly comments on anti-gay sentiment and policies, traumatic coming-out stories, social anxiety, eating disorders, toxic relationships, and respecting your body. Marty endures a painful first love but handles it remarkably well, which also represents a model way of handling disappointment in the game of love. The novel could have had a more frank discussion of the need for consent, but the character's reaction to an unwanted advance is convincing and shows resilience.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about romance in young adult gay fiction and in As Far As You'll Take Me. Did you find the romance and descriptions of the romantic moments genuinely passionate, convincing, and exciting? How does this young adult romance compare with others you've read?
How important is consent in any sexual encounter? If there's not consent, is it sexual assault?
Do you think all the strong language is necessary? Realistic? Why or why not?
Book Details
- Author: Phil Stamper
- Genre: Romance
- Book type: Fiction
- Publisher: Bloomsbury YA
- Publication date: February 9, 2021
- Publisher's recommended age(s): 13 - 18
- Number of pages: 320
- Available on: Nook, Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, iBooks, Kindle
- Last updated: June 5, 2022
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