Common Sense Media Review
By Carrie Kingsley
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based on child development research. How do we rate?
Uplifting picture book shows strength comes in many forms.
Parents Need to Know
Why Age 3+?
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Where to Read
What's the Story?
Not reaching the top of the rock wall in the school gym makes Tanisha feel like a failure in BE STRONG, especially compared with Cayla, who scampers to the top without effort. But her family helps her realize that strength comes in many forms, and most of them aren't about physical muscles. Her mom organizes an effort to improve the safety of their community; her grandma is determined to take up running even if she struggles; her dad helps people who are displaced after a disaster. Tanisha sees the value and feeling of success when she helps those efforts and stays committed to her own work even when it's hard.
Is It Any Good?
Author Pat Zietlow Miller's exceptional picture book reminds young readers of the importance of inclusion, commitment, and trust, and the powerful impact each person has when we reach out to others. In Be Strong, Tanisha's outlook changes when she sees the ways people show up for their community in different ways. Sometimes the world is improved when her connections are one-on-one, sometimes the work is communitywide, and sometimes it's in showing up for herself. Miller wisely highlights the importance of Tanisha balancing her own needs with the ways she can help her community, of not neglecting herself while she gives to others.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how, like in Be Strong, they have their own individual strengths that make each other stronger. What are your strengths?
How do you use your strengths to help others?
What makes a person strong?
Book Details
- Author :
- Illustrator : Jen Hill
- Genre : Picture Book
- Topics : Friendship
- Book type : Fiction
- Publisher : Roaring Brook Press
- Publication date : August 10, 2021
- Publisher's recommended age(s) : 3 - 6
- Number of pages : 32
- Available on : Hardback, Kindle
- Last updated : September 29, 2025
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