Irish rugby romance has alpha male brutality, swearing.
Parents Need to Know
Why Age 16+?
Any Positive Content?
Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Binding 13 is the first book in the bestselling Boys of Tommen series by Irish author Chloe Walsh. When Shannon and Johnny meet, their mutual attraction is undeniable, but between Johnny's commitment to rugby and Shannon's strict parents, it seems they're destined to remain friends. Violence includes verbal threats and fights resulting in bloody wounds, bruises, and hospitalization. A teen character is severely beaten by a parent on multiple occasions, and there are mentions of a child being raped in foster care. Bullying causes a student anxiety and panic attacks. One teen ogles another's naked body without her knowledge. A teen exchanges sexual favors with a much older adult authority figure, which isn't but should be explained as sexual assault due to age and power differences. Characters discuss sex constantly, including detailed talk of masturbation, blow jobs, casual hookups, and "putting your d--k in a girl," and the objectification of girls' bodies. There's some kissing and a detailed make-out scene. Constant swearing includes "a--hole," "c--t," "c--k," "d--k," "f--k," "f---ing," "p---y," "s--t," "t-ts," "arse," "balls," "bitch," "bloody," "bollocks," and "dammit," and "Jesus Christ" used as an exclamation.
Language
a lot
Near constant swearing includes "a--hole," "c--t," "c--k," "d--k," "f--k," "f---ing," "p---y," "s--t," "t-ts," "arse," "balls," "bitch," "bloody," "bollocks," and "dammit," and "Jesus Christ" used as an exclamation.
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No intercourse occurs in the story but characters discuss it constantly, including detailed talk of masturbation, blow jobs, casual hookups, and "putting your d--k in a girl." One woman is described as "sucking d--k like a Dyson." There is some kissing and a pretty heavy make-out scene toward the end of the book. Bodies are objectified, with lots of talk about breasts. Teenagers watch pornography. A girl is seen in her underwear by many people at school and is taunted for it. Rugby players are terrified of getting a girl pregnant and ruining their career, so they use condoms religiously. Brief mention of STD testing.
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Characters routinely use violence as a solution to problems, including verbal threats, name-calling, and fighting that results in bloody wounds, bruises, and hospitalization. One teenager is severely physically abused by her parent and has been for years. Mentions of a child being repeatedly raped while in foster care. Lots of verbal bullying and occasional threats of sexual assault. One teen ogles another's naked body without her knowledge. A teen exchanges sexual favors with a much older adult authority figure, which isn't but should be explained as sexual assault due to age and power differences. Excessive bullying causes a student to experience ongoing anxiety and panic attacks. Rugby games result in players being injured and bloody.
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Don't be a bully. Gender shouldn't determine your role in the household. You are worth more than your accomplishments. Meaningful relationships are better than one-night stands. However, these positive messages are overshadowed by the characters' actions, which reinforce negative messages, such as "success in sports is more important than self-care and healthy relationships," "fragile women need to be protected by men," and "violence is a viable solution." Also a double standard around sexual relationships: Characters demean girls who will have casual sex, and put virginal girls on a pedestal.
Positive Role Models
a little
Shannon's brother and a few friends protect her when she is incapable of doing so herself, but they generally use violence to address her problems. Shannon is portrayed as damaged and does little to stand up for herself, placing all her hope in strong alpha male characters coming to her rescue. Johnny wants to take care of Shannon but doesn't take care of himself. He is also violent, swears constantly, and has meaningless sex with older girls. Most adults are terrible role models, indulging in drunkenness, gambling, inappropriate behavior with minors, physical violence toward their children, and meanness. A few parents are supportive of their kids, but they aren't around much. Overall, any positive traits characters exhibit are negated by their other behaviors.
Educational Value
very little
Overview of the rules of rugby. Glossary of Irish terms.
Diverse Representations
very little
All characters are White and Irish. A gay character, shunned by his homophobic father, is referred to but never introduced. One main character is from an extremely impoverished family. Other families are from the upper-middle class. Some kids are good students, others struggle with schoolwork. Characters are objectified and judged by their bodies. Most girls are described as curvy and beautiful; boys are tall and muscled.
Parents say this book is highly regarded for its relatable themes of friendship, personal growth, and resilience, making it a good choice for readers aged 10 and up, though with some caution due to occasional mature content. However, opinions vary widely, with some parents expressing concerns about the presence of swearing, discussions of heavy topics like abuse and substance use, and the potential for unhealthy relationship dynamics, urging that it may be more suitable for older teens.
mature themes
relatable characters
parental guidance
diverse opinions
age-appropriate discussions
Summarized with AI
age 13+
Based on 25 kid reviews
Kids say the book addresses significant life challenges and personal growth, appealing to mature readers with its realistic portrayal of dark themes, including abuse and struggles with relationships. While some praise its humor and relatable characters, others critique the heavy use of profanity and discussions around sensitive topics, suggesting it may not be suitable for all younger audiences.
mature themes
realistic portrayal
character growth
heavy topics
mixed reviews
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What's the Story?
In BINDING 13, Shannon Lynch, a 15-year-old living in Ireland, has been bullied and traumatized for years. Desperate for a fresh start, she's transferred midyear to Tommen College. Her plans to keep a low profile disappear when, thanks to an accident, she catches the eye of Johnny Kavanagh on her first day of school. Hyper-focused on his up-and-coming rugby career and hiding a terrible injury, Johnny isn't interested in anything outside the sport. He knows he needs to keep his head in the game, but Shannon, with her wary eyes and hidden bruises, sparks something primal in him, and suddenly she's all he can think about. They try to keep their distance, but the chemistry between them is undeniable, and soon enough their mutual attraction threatens to destroy them both.
Long and violent, this rugby romance has few redeeming qualities. While the author of Binding 13, Chloe Walsh, does a pretty good job of capturing the individual voices of the two main characters, the story itself is slow and unoriginal. Add the "broken bird" trope to a bunch of macho rugby players who use threats and violence to manage every challenging situation, and you have a book full of terrible role models who spend far too much time swearing and dithering without actually acting on their desires. For a book that's 600-plus pages long, surprisingly little happens—and it ends on a cliffhanger. While Shannon is certainly in a difficult position, and it's painful to watch her contend with her terrible home life, it's even more painful to wait around for her to do something other than fret and allow domineering boys to solve her problems for her. The series has an enormous fan base on social media, but there really are better choices for those interested in a swoon-worthy romance.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how characters resolve bullying using physical violence in Binding 13. Can you think of other ways the characters could handle these situations?
Rugby is a very physical and often injury-causing sport. Do you think violence on the pitch contributes to the acceptance of violence in the character's everyday lives?
In this story, the rugby players talk about the girls they are having sex with very differently compared to the way they talk about the ones they plan to marry. What do you think about the depiction of sex as a meaningless exchange?
Do you think that the amount of swearing adds anything to the book? Could the author have written convincing teen characters without using so much of it?
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Last updated
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April 19, 2026
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