Breathe with Me: Using Breath to Feel Strong, Calm, and Happy
By Carrie Kingsley,
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Gentle tools for kids to connect daily moments to breath.

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What's the Story?
In BREATHE WITH ME: USING BREATH TO FEEL STRONG, CALM, AND HAPPY, author Mariam Gates guides young readers through a range of common emotions, and connects those emotions to ways of taking a breath. Each type of breathing helps kids become more aware of their bodies and take charge of the way they react to feeling scared, angry, tired, sad, and more. The emotions are relatable and explained in simple terms, and each type of breath is described in clear, reassuring language with vibrant illustrations.
Is It Any Good?
Emotions are a wild ride for parents and children, and one of the hardest parts of helping kids with their feelings is helping them identify what those feelings are. Breathe with Me makes figuring out those ever-changing emotions easier for kids, and gives them the tools essential to being in control of their reactions. The language Gates uses is unfussy and kind, making it easy for young readers to see themselves, without judgement, on the pages: A Belly Breath isn’t supposed to mask the cause of sadness, it’s to help the child feel better.
The illustrations by Sarah Jane Hinder are just as much a part of the book as the words. The kids in the book are inclusive and engaging, and, magically capture the changes focused breath can make on a kid’s body and expression. Breathe with Me can help kids see that they aren’t alone in feeling what they feel and can learn how to harness their reactions in positive ways -- a lesson adult readers can learn right along with their children.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about some of the stressful situations in Breathe with Me. What can cause some of those feelings? Do you remember how your body felt the last time you were mad?
What's your breathing like right now?
How do you like to wake up in the morning? Would Rainbow Breath help you?
Book Details
- Author: Mariam Gates
- Illustrator: Sarah Jane Hinder
- Genre: Body Awareness
- Topics: Great Boy Role Models, Great Girl Role Models
- Book type: Non-Fiction
- Publisher: Sounds True
- Publication date: January 1, 2019
- Publisher's recommended age(s): 4 - 8
- Number of pages: 32
- Available on: Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, Kindle
- Last updated: February 20, 2019
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