Parents' Guide to Flipped

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Common Sense Media Review

By Matt Berman , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 11+

Honest story about first crushes -- tweens and up.

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Why Age 11+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 12+

Based on 11 parent reviews

age 10+

Based on 67 kid reviews

Kids say this book is incredibly cute and relatable, making it a delightful read for tweens and teens. Readers appreciate the dual perspectives and the emphasis on looking beyond appearances, while some have pointed out issues with character portrayal and pacing, making it a mixed but largely positive experience.

  • cute story
  • relatable characters
  • dual perspectives
  • life lessons
  • mixed reception
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What's the Story?

In alternating chapters, Bryce and Juli tell the story of their relationship, beginning in second grade when Bryce moves in across the street from Juli. Juli instantly develops a crush on Bryce, who does not reciprocate, and throughout elementary school he tries to avoid her persistent and unwelcome attentions.

In middle school, however, they both begin to notice Bryce's substantial character flaws. Just as Bryce begins to try to change, and to notice Juli's good points, her ardor starts to cool. Meanwhile their families, and their perceptions of their world, also undergo dramatic changes.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 11 ):
Kids say ( 67 ):

This deceptively simple novel about first crushes is a lot like real life -- sometimes too much so. There is hardly a character, major or minor, adult or child, who is really likable, though a few, such as Bryce and his grandfather, drift toward likability by the end. They all mess up, usually repeatedly, and mostly through selfishness and lack of understanding and compassion, just like real people. And most of them change -- and change again.

The alternating narrators device in FLIPPED adds another realistic layer to this multilayered book. Bryce and Juli describe the same events from their points of view, and they do so with surprising honesty. The differences in their versions come not from trying to hide the truth or justify their own behavior, but from genuinely seeing things differently. They both behave badly, Bryce especially, but they're both able to face that and to attempt the always difficult process of conscious change.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the characters' behavior.

  • Why do they do the things they do?

  • Is Bryce really a coward? Is his grandfather fair to him?

  • Also, point of view is very important here. Why do the stories the two characters tell seem so different? Are they lying?

  • Do people really see the same events so differently? Why?

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