Getting Near to Baby
By Maria Strom,
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Moving story of grief and recovery.
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What's the Story?
When Baby dies, tragedy affects everyone in the family differently. They must find their own paths through grief, in their own time, and this may not match another's schedule or needs. The wisdom of one family member in supporting these differences results in healing. This moving story of grief and recovery is told in an eccentric, nonlinear fashion.
Is It Any Good?
The moving story line highlights the shattering effect of grief in 12-year-old Willa Jo Dean's family. It echoes Willa Jo's fragmentary process of working through grief over her baby sister's death and its debilitating effects on Mom. It also adds to the satisfaction of the family reunion at book's end. Some children may have a hard time with the sad topic and the slow pace of the story.
Willa Jo is portrayed as a spunky girl fighting to help her sister, while struggling to be of help to Mom, by living with rule-making Aunt Patty. Willa Jo sounds adult, partly as a result of the book's engaging Southern voice and partly because she's the older sister.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how Willa Jo handles her baby sister's illness and death and its effects on her mother. How does Willa Jo try to help her mother and sister? What do you think of her efforts?
Book Details
- Author: Audrey Couloumbis
- Genre: Family Life
- Book type: Fiction
- Publisher: Penguin Group
- Publication date: January 1, 1999
- Number of pages: 211
- Award: Newbery Medal and Honors
- Last updated: August 31, 2015
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