Parents' Guide to How It All Ends

How It All Ends book cover: Girl at desk imagining active characters

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Oliver Scout Guerisoli By Oliver Scout Guerisoli , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 8+

Playful, authentic, queer coming-of-age graphic novel.

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What's the Story?

In HOW IT ALL ENDS, Tara finds herself promoted from middle school to high school a year early—a situation she was not expecting! Thrust into new social groups, norms, and classrooms, she navigates coming-of-age scenarios with anxiety, humor, bravery, mistakes, help, and patience. Emma Hunsinger illustrates an engaging imaginative world where we get a sense of what it is like to be inside Tara's mind as she "Imagine(s) the possibilities."

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This sweet, tender portrayal of one girl's transition to high school is a must read for coming-of-age kiddos and their grown-ups. In How It All Ends Tara shines as a deeply feeling, courageous, and creative main character, surrounded by a nuanced cast of family and friends. Anxiety is depicted in clever and beautiful ways, without discounting the discomfort. With themes like learning to move with and through the unknown, discovering oneself, building and repairing relationships, and finding love in all its forms, this book empowers readers to be themselves—even when that feels scary.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about anxiety in How It All Ends. Have you ever experienced anxiety when in a crowded place, or in your own mind when thinking of the future? What helps you most in those situations?

  • Tara shows courage when taking accountability for mistakes. When was the last time you apologized? What were you afraid would happen? What actually happened? What do you need from loved ones when repairing a situation?

  • What do the color changes in the illustrations mean to you? What colors would you choose to illustrate similar situations in your own life?

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