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A Lot or a Little?
What you will—and won't—find in this book.
Readers will learn about what many LGBTQ teens go through in the process of coming out, and what it means to be nonbinary.
Gender identity is complex and personal, and everyone deserves to feel safe, respected, and loved regardless of how they identify. It's important to have a support network you can rely on, and it's good to ask for help. Trauma doesn't heal overnight, it takes time and effort. Honesty and vulnerability are needed to build positive, healthy relationships. Forgiveness needs to be earned.
Positive Role Models
Representation of a diverse array of racial, gender, and sexual identities. Ben is thoughtful and sensitive, and is brave enough to embrace their gender and sexual fluidity even when others don't. Hannah is a protective older sister who does her best to accept and support Ben in any way she can. Hannah and Thomas are respectful of Ben's identity and pronouns, and take responsibility when they make mistakes. Nathan is a person of color (race not specified, but he appears to have brown skin in the cover art) and a charismatic and selfless friend. He's often the voice of reason when Ben is struggling with anxiety. Dr. Taylor is positive and understanding, and helps Ben process their thoughts and feelings in a healthy way.
Sex, Romance & Nudity
Light flirting, two teens kiss after admitting their feelings for each other.
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Infrequent swearing includes "damn," "Jesus," "hell," "d--k," variations of "s--t" and "f--k," and one use of "homo."
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Products & Purchases
Regular mentions of popular social media and technology platforms like Facebook, YouTube, and FaceTime.
Drinking, Drugs & Smoking
Teens drink alcohol at a house party, but not all get drunk. One character has a panic attack after taking a shot of tequila under peer pressure.
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Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Mason Deaver's I Wish You All the Best is about a nonbinary teen named Ben who gets kicked out of their home after coming out to their parents. With no other options, Ben moves in with their estranged older sister, Hannah, and her husband Thomas, and must adjust to life in a new place while navigating the challenges of family trauma and relationships, first love, and their own identity. Characters frequently engage with the topics of gender and sexuality from many different perspectives and experiences, providing lessons about identity and the diversity of the LGBTQ community. Issues related to mental health such as depression, anxiety, and panic attacks feature prominently, with an important storyline involving the main character seeing a psychiatrist. Romance and love are a big part of the story, helping the characters learn about trust and communication, but there's only one brief kissing scene. Teens drink alcohol at a party, and one character experiences a panic attack after being pressured to take a shot of hard liquor. Swearing is infrequent but includes "hell," "s--t," "f--k," and more. There are themes of family, acceptance, and perseverance throughout.
Is It Any Good?
True to its optimistic title, Mason Deaver's first novel is a deeply heartfelt tribute to the growing pains of first love and self-acceptance that people of all genders can find hope in. I Wish You All the Best offers a refreshing, nuanced coming-out narrative that celebrates the small victories in what is often a scary, stressful, and traumatic experience for young LGBTQ people. Deaver, who also identifies as non-binary, breaks the convention of tragic outcomes for queer youth by filling the story with meaningful and positive moments that show the importance of authenticity and perseverance in the face of life's most daunting obstacles. At times, however, the story suffers from inconsistent narration and lack of direction that can make these lessons feel out of place. And while it's uplifting to watch Ben open up to the possibility of romance, it distracts from the more compelling storyline that follows Ben and Hannah as they try to rebuild their sibling relationship and heal from the harm caused by their parents. That said, I Wish You All the Best is a charming and admirable exploration of gender and sexuality in the familiar setup of a sweet coming-of-age romance, and will surely appeal to teens looking for more genuine, diverse love stories.
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