I'm Not Dying With You Tonight
By Barbara Saunders,
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Girls forge friendship amid night of rioting in deep novel.
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Quick read, very good!
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What's the Story?
When I'M NOT DYING WITH YOU TONIGHT begins, Lena and Campbell are gearing up for their home football game at McPherson High School, which is predominantly black, against Jonesville High School, which is predominately white. Campbell is a white high school senior from Haverford, Pennsylvania. Her mother had to take a job in Venezuela, so Campbell moved to Atlanta, Georgia, to live with her father, who owns a modest hardware store in an unglamorous section of town. Lena grew up in Atlanta, in a mostly black neighborhood. Her family is well-off compared with many of her friends' families. Lena's infatuation with an older guy, an aspiring musician who works in a tattoo parlor, causes conflict between her and her grandfather. After the game, fights break out at the school, with things escalating to the point that someone gets shot and the police come onto the scene. The two girls escape the campus but find themselves in the middle of a protest that's quickly turning into rioting and looting. They're forced to rely on each other and navigate their differences to survive the night.
Is It Any Good?
This is a wonderfully sensitive portrayal of the intense relationships that can develop between teen girls. Debut authors Gilly Segal and Kimberly Jones made the masterful choice to make I'm Not Dying With You Tonight first and foremost a deep story about the evolution of a friendship. The plot and setting cover racial misunderstandings, divorce, financial problems, and the rollercoaster of teen romance. However, the heart of the book is the way two strong girls bring out the best in each other when the world crashes down around them, and boyfriends, parents, teachers, and the police can't, won't, or just don't help.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the meaning of friendship in I'm Not Dying With You Tonight. Lena and Campbell come to admire each other, despite their differences. What are the key turning points in their relationship? How does their friendship compare with those among Marcus and his group, and Black and his group.
Lena and Campbell alternate chapters to tell the story. How did that influence how you understood the story? Which one of them do you think was the leader, and why?
What do you think of the behavior of the police throughout the novel and how the authors depict the officers?
Book Details
- Authors: Gilly Segal , Kimberly Jones
- Genre: Friendship
- Topics: Adventures , Friendship , Great Girl Role Models
- Book type: Fiction
- Publisher: Sourcebooks Fire
- Publication date: August 1, 2019
- Publisher's recommended age(s): 13 - 18
- Number of pages: 272
- Available on: Paperback, Kindle
- Last updated: August 8, 2019
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