Parents' Guide to It Ain't So Awful, Falafel

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Darienne Stewart By Darienne Stewart , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 10+

Relatable story of Iranian girl in U.S. who wants to fit in.

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What's the Story?

When her family moves to Newport Beach, California, right before she starts sixth grade, Zomorod is so desperate to fit in that she changes her name to Cindy. She's embarrassed by her Iranian family: Her depressed mother won't learn English and doesn't grasp American social etiquette, her engineer dad talks only about oil in thickly accented English, and her family doesn't celebrate American holidays. After a rocky start, Cindy has great friends and feels she's blending in (though she's often mistaken for Mexican). But the Iranian Revolution and hostage crisis threaten everything in their lives, and the family faces threats. Cindy no longer feels welcome in America -- but could she return to such a changed Iran?

Is It Any Good?

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Kids say ( 5 ):

The 1979 revolution in Iran may seem like ancient history to middle schoolers today, but this amiable novel makes that tense, world-changing event real and -- most importantly -- relatable. Author Firoozeh Dumas draws on her own childhood for IT AIN'T SO AWFUL, FALAFEL, and she captures the spirit and voice of a young girl whose normal middle school anxieties are deepened by a sometimes unbridgeable gulf between her and her very American peers.

Cindy and her family are the emotional core of the story: Cindy's friends, though kind and steadfast, are barely developed. Her girlfriends and kindly neighbors are primarily used to prop up dialogue explaining developments in Iran. Dumas clearly describes the cultural and political changes in Iran and the nation's complicated history with the U.S., and she affectingly portrays the countless ways newcomers to America can struggle to feel at home. It raises issues about the immigrant experience that still resonate today.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about anti-Iranian rhetoric during the hostage crisis, from threatening T-shirts and bumper stickers to harassment of Cindy's family. Do you think much has changed in America since the 1970s in that regard?

  • Have you ever witnessed harassment of someone because of their ethnicity, religion, gender, or background? What did you do?

  • It Ain't So Awful, Falafel is based on the author's childhood. Do you think her experience is similar to that of other immigrant families? Why, or why not?

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