Parents' Guide to Kindness for Weakness

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Joe Applegate By Joe Applegate , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Gritty story about a boy growing up fast in prison.

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What's the Story?

Fifteen-year-old James is abandoned by his parents and his adored older brother, who sets him up to run crystal meth. In boys' prison in upstate New York, James learns to grow up fast, anticipating a life-and-death battle with another prisoner, Antwon. James lifts weights and finds a friend who shows him the ropes, but more important, looks for life lessons in the books that his high school English teacher sends him. James is the only character who grows in self-esteem, but the author withholds sentimental optimism about James' future.

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Shawn Goodman, a school psychologist who worked in a juvenile "residential center," deserves credit for writing a blunt account of life within it in KINDNESS FOR WEAKNESS. The unappealing routines, the despicable talk, the imminent and explosive violence are all here, and so is the fact that almost no one stands a good chance of self-fulfillment. This worthy author writes in the postscript, "... instead of apologizing for the darkness of this story, I will simply thank you for reading, and thinking, and feeling."

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about male role models. Where does a boy who doesn't know his father turn for guidance into manhood?

  • Mr. Pike, one of the prison guards, has been trying for a long time to earn his pilot's license. Will he make it? Why would the author include that detail?

  • If you knew you had to fight for your life, how would you prepare?

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