
Learning to Fall
By Mary Eisenhart,
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Touching tale of tween reconnecting with estranged dad.
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What's the Story?
LEARNING TO FALL finds 12-year-old Daphne not a bit happy about being sent from her home in Los Angeles to stay in Oakland with her estranged dad for the summer because her actor mom has landed a role in Europe. She and her dad once shared a passion for skating, but she hasn't seen him or touched her board since her ninth birthday, one of a long list of no-shows in her life caused by his drinking. Now he's in recovery and trying to make amends. As she meets his skater friends and the grandparents she can't remember, she's not sure she wants to know. But the skate park is calling, her new friend Arlo is encouraging, and maybe she and her dad do have a thing or two in common.
Is It Any Good?
Author Sally Engelfried's empathetic tale of recovery, reconciliation, and mad skills finds inspiration in skater culture as an angry tween reconnects with her estranged dad. The sport offers a lot of lessons in Learning to Fall. Also in learning to get back up and try again, in life and at the skate park -- and stereotype-busting emphasis on hard work, perseverance, acceptance, and respect.
"When I got back to the top, one of the guys said, 'Not bad for a girl.'
"'Aw, that's bull,' the other one said. 'She's better than you, and you know it.'
"'True dat,' the first guy said."
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the theme of passion in Learning to Fall. What other stories have you read where having a passion for something and working hard at it offers challenges and also rewards -- some of them life-changing? Which are your favorites?
Do you or your friends have adults in your lives who really messed up in the past but are now trying to do better? How do you feel about that? Do you want to offer support, or stay far away?
Is skating your thing, or is there something else that really inspires you to work hard at it and keep getting better? What's the most difficult thing about it -- and what's the most rewarding?
Book Details
- Author: Sally Engelfried
- Genre: Coming of Age
- Topics: Sports and Martial Arts , Friendship , Great Boy Role Models , Great Girl Role Models
- Character Strengths: Communication , Courage , Empathy , Gratitude , Perseverance
- Book type: Fiction
- Publisher: Little, Brown Books for Young Readers
- Publication date: September 6, 2022
- Publisher's recommended age(s): 8 - 12
- Number of pages: 272
- Available on: Nook, Hardback, iBooks, Kindle
- Award: Common Sense Selection
- Last updated: September 22, 2022
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