Mexican Whiteboy

Book review by
Matt Berman, Common Sense Media
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Moving, violent book about teen looking for his identity.

Parents say

age 14+
Based on 1 review

Kids say

age 13+
Based on 4 reviews

A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this book.

Educational Value

This gripping book could inspire some important discussions about what it's like to grow up as a mixed-raced teen in today's world. See our "Families Can Talk About" section for some ideas.

Positive Messages

This is a coming-of-age story about a boy who feels caught between two cultures and must find his own identity and faith in himself.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Readers who come from mixed racial or ethnic backgrounds will find it easy to relate to Danny and his feelings of not belonging in either world.


Several fistfights: in one of them a man is brutally and graphically beaten, probably to death, though this is not clear, then run over with a car, snapping his bones. In another a boy requires stitches afterwards. A boy is hit in the face with a baseball bat, breaking his teeth and nose. A reference to spousal abuse. Also, Danny, unhappy with his life, cuts himself.


Some kissing, mentions of STDs, some mild sexual fantasies, references to prostitution and masturbation, getting "laid," a boy and girl go into a bedroom together and don't come out.


Plenty of swearing, including "s--t", "f--k,"" motherf--r," and more.


Lots of product brands mentioned, many approvingly, some repeatedly: clothes, shoes, fast food, soft drinks, sports equipment, alcohol, and cars.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Some smoking, teens and adults drink wine, beer, and hard liquor and get drunk, adults give sips of alcohol to small children, some smoking of marijuana.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this is a book about a teen who feels caught between two cultures. There is some gritty material, including swearing, marijuana smoking, sex talk, and most especially, violence: Amidst plenty of swearing and fistfights, there is one brutally graphic scene in which a man is beaten, probably to death, and then run over, snapping his bones. Also, Danny, unhappy with his life, cuts himself. But ultimately this is a moving and engrossing novel that will resonate with many teens. Readers who come from mixed racial or ethnic backgrounds will find it easy to relate to Danny and his feelings of not belonging in either world.

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User Reviews

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  • Kids say
Adult Written byLKat95 October 24, 2011

Good multicultural title for high school boys

This book is the story of a boy who is struggling with his ethnic identity. He has a white mother and a Mexican father. Through his love of baseball, he makes f... Continue reading
Teen, 15 years old Written bythisloser December 14, 2010

good for teens

i think this book is great i hate reading i read a couple pages of this book then got cought in and read it all its very interesting
Kid, 12 years old April 20, 2013

The real stuff

Well this book is really good. Although the book has swears and some other stuff, those things are meant to be there. In lots of Latinos neighborhoods this is h... Continue reading

What's the story?

Danny, son of a white mother and a Mexican father, hasn't seen his dad for a long time, and doesn't really know why he left. Danny has real talent for baseball, especially pitching, but he has been cut from his team because he chokes under pressure and his pitches go wild. With his darker skin, he doesn't fit in at the upscale private school he attends. Now he's spending the summer with his cousins and uncles in National City, hoping to figure out where he belongs, and why his father left. But he doesn't feel he fits in there either, and the truth about his father is more complicated than he imagines.

Is it any good?

Author Matt de la Pena makes his protagonist real and heartbreakingly sympathetic. Inside Danny's head, his pain is very understandable, and his flailing efforts to do something about it are all-too typically adolescent. 

Danny seems to have everything going for him: he's a smart, straight-A student and a gifted athlete, good-looking, with a loving, supportive family and a new rich about-to-be stepfather. And yet he's utterly miserable, so much so that he is virtually mute, and has taken to cutting himself. Danny is an unusually fully-realized character, and the author weaves his character and feelings with a level of subtle understanding rare in teen novels. One incident of violence, though integral to the plot, may seem excessively described, and readers will find it hard to put out of their heads. But de la Pena delivers exciting sports action and some terrific supporting players, especially Danny's enemy turned friend Uno, and Uno's pontificating father. This is a moving and engrossing novel that will resonate with many teens.


Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about being multiracial or multiethnic. What other books and movies can you think of that tackle teen with multiple identities? What are some of the common themes in these stories?

  • Do you think it is easier for multiracial kids today than it was a generation ago? Why or why not?

  • Discuss the violence in this book: Is it necessary to convey Danny's story? Is reading about violence different than seeing in a movie or experiencing it in a video game? How so?

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