Common Sense Media Review
By Oliver Scout Guerisoli
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Tender, trans remix of Pride and Prejudice is a triumph.
Parents Need to Know
Why Age 13+?
Any Positive Content?
Where to Read
What's the Story?
In MOST ARDENTLY, Oliver is coming out to his family as a trans boy and falling in love with another boy, Mr. Darcy, at the same time. Going against the grain of societal expectations in early 1800s England and being himself openly takes patience and thoughtfulness. Coming out of the closet isn't easy, but with many supportive people along the way, the possibility becomes more attainable each day. An author's note discloses sensitive material for certain readers, and a historical note gives interested readers further context for the time period.
Is It Any Good?
Gabe Cole Novoa has written a heartfelt trans reimagining of a beloved classic. Most Ardently follows the endearing character Oliver Bennet as he navigates the complexity of sharing openly who he truly is, within the confines of Regency Era England. Friendships and falling in love are portrayed as tender, vulnerable experiences, with a mutual willingness to repair when things go wrong. While depictions of gender dysphoria may be triggering, some readers will feel validated by seeing their experiences reflected by the many characters who make sure that gender euphoria (feeling joy in your body) is also possible for Oliver. Parents of trans children searching for role models need look no further. Mr. Bennet and eventually Mrs. Bennet (spoiler alert!) nearly steal the show with their affirming and genuine love of their son. For readers looking to re-parent themselves after experiencing the sting of dismissive family, this is a mandatory read -- allies abound, and love wins in this sincere and delightfully healing book. For fans of classic retellings, this has all the wit, charm, and romance of the original with an endearing cast of characters -- it doesn't get better than this.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about allyship while reading Most Ardently. When have you been an ally? When have you needed one? Why are allies so important?
Are there any societal norms you would like to change in your own life? If so, why and how might you go about challenging them?
Where is the place you feel the most at ease as your full self? When will you visit again? Or is it people you feel most at ease with? Who are they?
Talk about some times that Oliver perseveres and shows courage throughout the book. How is he able to keep going? What about you? Who or what helps you keep going or feel courageous?
Book Details
- Author :
- Genre : Romance
- Topics : Book Characters , History
- Character Strengths : Communication , Courage , Perseverance
- Book type : Fiction
- Publisher : Feiwel & Friends
- Publication date : January 16, 2024
- Publisher's recommended age(s) : 13 - 18
- Number of pages : 304
- Available on : Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, Apple Books, Kindle
- Awards : ALA Best and Notable Books , Common Sense Selection
- Last updated : September 18, 2025
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