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My Mom Is a Foreigner, But Not to Me

By Patricia Tauzer, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 5+

Sweet tale of multicultural moms has message of acceptance.

Book Julianne Moore Picture Book 2013
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sarah.wysocki
sarah.wysocki Adult
February 27, 2020
age 3+

Cute book

I think this is a great book that kids can relate to.

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What's the Story?

MY MOM IS A FOREIGNER, BUT NOT TO ME interweaves the voices of various children to explain how they feel about their mothers who have come from an assortment of countries other than the United States. Kids say their foreign-born moms look different, talk a little funny, cook strange foods, and have expectations that are a bit unusual. But, they also listen, sing, laugh and hug in their special ways. And that is what makes each of them "the best."

Is It Any Good?

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The sentiment is sweet and loving, and Meilo So's vivid watercolor-and-ink illustrations add a pleasant softness and vivid ethnic beauty to the narrative. When read aloud slowly, with time taken to look closely at the pictures, the gentle message accurately captures the tug kids of immigrant parents must feel as they adjust to the world around them. Author Julianne Moore is talking here from her own experience, so she should know. However, on first read, knowing who is speaking is a bit confusing. Different fonts are used to indicate different children and none of them is ever really identified or matched together. Also, the rhyming verse is awkward and strained at times, and that detracts from the story.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about what it means to be an immigrant, or a foreigner, and the different countries represented in this book. Do you know people from any of these countries? Are they immigrants? How can you tell? How are they different? How are they the same?

  • The author uses different fonts to show that different people are speaking. Did you find that confusing, or did you get it at the start? What does it show about being different and being the same?

  • Look at the festival page and try to match the symbols with the celebration. The answers are inside the front page.

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