Out of My Mind

Book review by
Sally Engelfried, Common Sense Media
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Girl with cerebral palsy conquers challenges in moving tale.

Parents say

age 9+
Based on 11 reviews

Kids say

age 9+
Based on 46 reviews

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The parents' guide to what's in this book.

Educational Value

Reading about Melody's daily life will educate many readers about what it's like to have a physical disability and help them understand why they shouldn't take their own abilities for granted. Readers get a window into Melody's mind that will inspire empathy and an understanding that we never really know what's inside a person, despite appearances. 

Positive Messages

Don't judge people at face value. Keep striving for what you want, no matter how impossible it seems. Even if all your dreams don't come true, it's possible to improve your life. Love is a great motivator, and family support is invaluable. A sense of humor can help you tolerate even prejudice and ill feeling.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Melody's intelligent and works hard to achieve as much as she can, despite her physical disabilities. The love and support she's always received from her parents enable her to express her emotions clearly, whether it's frustration and hurt at the cruelty of her classmates, elation over her intellectual triumphs, or appreciation of the people around her who help her. Melody's parents, especially her mother, are strong advocates for Melody's rights and fight against the bias many people have toward Melody because of her cerebral palsy.

Violence
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Language

Kids call Melody and her disabled classmates "retarded" and make fun of them. 

Consumerism
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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Coretta Scott King Award-winning author Sharon M. Draper's Out of My Mind is narrated by a girl with cerebral palsy who's very intelligent but unable to express herself verbally or physically. When Melody is integrated into some general classes at school, many kids are purposely mean; others, including teachers, are cruel through their assumptions that Melody is incapable of understanding them. With the help of her parents and some supportive friends and teachers, Melody acquires a machine that allows her to communicate better than she ever has before. This gains her a measure of peer acceptance -- but also opens her up to hurt when she realizes she can never really be like everyone else. Ultimately, Melody's self-acceptance, sense of humor, and loving nature are inspiring.

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  • Kids say
Adult Written byRonnam1 November 26, 2019

Heart warming , and sad

This a is a great book. It really gave me a new understanding of people who are different. This book is beautifully written and composed. Is a great book for ki...
Adult Written byTacosWowIMeanSe... October 22, 2019

Wow

I love this book as it is life-instilling and really makes you appreciate the way of life. ❤️
Kid, 11 years old January 21, 2020

Love this book!

I personally think that this book is an awesome book.
Kid, 9 years old March 2, 2016

I'm out of my mind for Out of My Mind!

This book shows the struggles of a girl with somewhat relatable issues as she starts fifth grade. I recommend this book for anyone who is ready to see through t... Continue reading

What's the story?

In OUT OF MY MIND, narrator Melody, born with cerebral palsy, has never been able to communicate to her loving family all the thoughts that run through her mind. The story reveals Melody's inner thoughts and her frustration at not being able to control her body -- she has to have someone feed her and help her go to the bathroom -- despite the fact that she has a photographic memory. Melody reminisces about her childhood and takes us up to fifth grade, when she acquires a machine that helps her communicate better than she ever could before. When she gets on a school team with the "regular" kids that finally allows her to show off her intelligence, Melody thinks she's on the road to being accepted by them -- until she learns the heartbreaking truth that her differences will always set her apart.

Is it any good?

Author Sharon M. Draper, winner of several Coretta Scott King awards (for November Blues and Copper Sun, among others) has created a well-rounded, likable character. Melody's not afraid to express anger or frustration yet still manages to keep a mostly positive outlook on her situation. Though some of the language is surprisingly dated for a book that came out in 2010, Melody's worries are timeless: She wants to wear cool clothes, be accepted by her peers, and have grown-ups acknowledge her intelligence.

Readers will find it easy to empathize with Melody and will root for her when she finally gets to be a part of the fifth-grade history competition -- and they'll feel her heartbreak when all doesn't go as she hopes it will.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about stories of kids dealing with disabilities. Do their experiences make it easier for you to deal with things in your own life, or do they make you look at problems differently?

  • How does technology improve Melody's life? Can you think of more ways technology could make positive changes for someone like Melody? Has technology had any negative impacts on Melody's life?

  • How does peer pressure affect people? Does reading Melody's story make you think differently about anyone you know or have observed?

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