Parents' Guide to Perfect

Book Ellen Hopkins Poetry 2011
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Kate Pavao By Kate Pavao , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Teens learn to live for themselves in intense, mature book.

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age 15+

Based on 6 kid reviews

What's the Story?

Conner strives to be the perfect athlete, Kendra to the perfect size -- meanwhile Cara tries to live up to her mother's impossible expectations, and Andre tires to hide his passion for dancing. Meanwhile, they are all hiding secrets: Conner is addicted to steroids, for example, and Kendra is starving herself to death. Through verse poetry, each character narrates his or her struggle -- and comes to the slow realization that he or she must escape an external definition of perfect.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say : Not yet rated
Kids say ( 6 ):

PERFECT fits the classic Hopkins formula -- thick book, verse poetry, hot-button issues, and mature language -- and fans will likely race through the 600-plus pages. Perhaps the author tries a bit too hard to drive her point home here -- don't try to be perfect, be yourself -- and she makes her characters suffer an awful lot along the way. Even so, the book will certainly give your teens plenty to ponder. A plot line about cyberbullying could especially lead to some important conversation among family members. 

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about YA books. There has been a lot of discussion in the media about the mature material in these books -- which some feel have gotten too dark. In response, the author argues on her blog that when teens "become a character in a book, use and lose control, right along with that character, they understand better what’s at stake." Which side are you on?

  • This book features a cybercrime: A boy uses his phone to take a picture of his ex-girlfriend having sex with another girl and then emails it around. Does this sound like something that might actually happen? Families may want to take the time to review Common Sense Media's tips for preventing cyberbullying.

Book Details

  • Author : Ellen Hopkins
  • Genre : Poetry
  • Book type : Fiction
  • Publisher : Simon & Schuster
  • Publication date : September 13, 2011
  • Publisher's recommended age(s) : 14 - 14
  • Number of pages : 640
  • Last updated : June 23, 2019

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