Common Sense Media Review
By Sage Moreaux
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Heartfelt adventure tackles grief, envy, and friendship.
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What's the Story?
In RETURN TO SENDER, Oliver and his mom are shuffled from house to house as they try to recover from his father's death. When they inherit a relative's apartment in New York City, it seems things might be looking up. But then Oliver starts at a new fancy private school, where his mom works as a custodian. The other kids have personal jets, the latest fashions, and newest toys. Teased for his old sneakers and second-hand clothes, Oliver has never felt more alone. Then he discovers a magical mailbox in his new apartment, specifically designed to grant any wish he wants. But as his desires grow grander, the unintended consequences might be more devastating than expected.
Is It Any Good?
Heartwarming and fast-paced, this story is a fun adventure that kids are sure to love. Return to Sender combines real-life issues with a light fantasy adventure, giving readers much to think about without being heavy-handed. Author Vera Brosgol tackles challenging topics such as the death of a parent, disparity of wealth, and loneliness with a deft hand. The author also brings her impressive illustration skills to the story. Her lovely drawings are sprinkled throughout the book and add to the enjoyment of this charming story. Her storytelling prowess is evident as well, with well-rounded, believable characters that readers will happily root for.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about what Oliver believes will make his life happier, and what ends up mattering most. What lessons about gratitude and satisfaction do the characters learn?
The consequences of your actions is a major theme in this book. Can you think of a choice you made where you would've acted differently if you knew what would happen as a result?
How does the author weave topics such as environmentalism, social class, grief, bullying, and friendship into this story?
Many of the classmates that Oliver envies come from financially wealthy families that are lacking in other areas. Did you feel empathy for any of Oliver's classmates? How so?
By the end of the story, Oliver chose gratitude over greed. Can you think of things in your own life to be grateful for?
Book Details
- Author :
- Genre : Fantasy
- Topics : Cooking , Fantasy ( Magic ) , Adventures , Friendship , School ( Middle School )
- Character Strengths : Gratitude , Perseverance
- Book type : Fiction
- Publisher : Roaring Brook Press
- Publication date : May 6, 2025
- Publisher's recommended age(s) : 8 - 12
- Number of pages : 320
- Available on : Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, Apple Books, Kindle
- Award : Common Sense Selection
- Last updated : September 18, 2025
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