
Since You've Been Gone
By Sandie Angulo Chen,
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Charming summer story encourages taking risks, finding love.
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What's the Story?
Emily is ready to have an amazing summer working and hanging out with her BFF Sloane in their picturesque Connecticut town of Stanwich, but her plans are foiled when she realizes Sloane and her family have moved without a trace -- leaving no text message, no email, and no forwarding address. Two weeks after painfully shy Emily discovers her extroverted, life-of-the-party bestie has gotten out of dodge, she receives a letter from Sloane. The letter consists of a 13-item checklist of things Sloane must do, from relatively simple tasks such as "apple-picking at night" and "sleep under the stars" to much squirmier commands such as "kiss a stranger" and "go skinny-dipping." With the help of handsome (but taken) class valedictorian Frank Porter, new pal Dawn, and Frank's clownish best friend Collins, Emily tackles "the list" seriously in hopes of finding Sloane.
Is It Any Good?
Author Morgan Matson has quickly developed into one of contemporary YA's most delightful authors, creating thoughtful stories about friendship, family, and first love. Whereas Second Chance Summer and Amy and Roger's Epic Detour both focused on main characters grieving the loss of a parent, SINCE YOU'VE BEEN GONE chronicles a different kind of grief: the abrupt loss of a friend (who's still alive but mysteriously gone without any communication except a letter). Matson deftly captures the intimacy of teen best friendship -- how it really does feel like you're "only half" (and, in many cases, the "lesser" half) of a two-person whole. Emily sans Sloane is barely able to talk to strangers, so the list is like a farewell present that dares Emily to find out what makes her awesome all on her own.
The romance in Since You've Been Gone isn't as straightforward as it is between Taylor and Henry in Second Chance Summer, but it's a satisfying slow burn reminiscent of Amy and Roger's in Matson's first novel. The friends-to-more theme might be obvious in YA (and all romances, for that matter), but it's a much more fulfilling alternative to the "instalove" that's so prevalent in teen books. What's even better than the romance in Emily's story is that it's a tale of self-discovery. At first, Emily honestly doesn't think she's worth knowing without her more popular and outgoing best friend, so it's heartening to see her discover how captivating she is, too.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the popularity of books about life-changing summers. Why is summer such a magical time for teens? What are some of your favorite books set in summer?
What messages do you take away from Since You've Been Gone about taking risks and going outside your comfort zone? Which parts of the list were good for Emily and which weren't so easy?
How are romantic relationships treated in the book? Why is Dawn so upset with Emily for kissing Frank? Do you agree with Dawn's view of what constitutes cheating?
Book Details
- Author: Morgan Matson
- Genre: Contemporary Fiction
- Topics: Friendship , High School
- Book type: Fiction
- Publisher: Simon & Schuster
- Publication date: May 6, 2014
- Publisher's recommended age(s): 12 - 17
- Number of pages: 449
- Available on: Nook, Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, iBooks, Kindle
- Last updated: July 12, 2017
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