Parents' Guide to Sulwe

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Regan McMahon By Regan McMahon , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 4+

Girl learns to embrace her dark skin in magical tale.

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What's the Story?

SULWE is a little girl who observes that she's treated differently and left out because her skin, "the color of midnight," is darker than that of her family members and schoolmates. While her lighter-skinned sister gets nicknames like "Sunshine," "Ray," and "Beauty," Sulwe gets called names like "Blackie," "Darky," and "Night." "Sulwe felt hurt every time." She tries to get lighter by rubbing her skin with an eraser, putting on light makeup, even eating light-colored foods. She prays for lighter skin, starting with "Dear Lord, Why do I look like midnight when my mother looks like dawn?" Her mother tells her that her name means "star" and says, "Brightness is not in your skin ... Brightness is just who you are." And she says, "Real beauty comes from your mind and your heart. It begins with how you see yourself, not how others see you." That night a star comes into her room and whisks her away through the sky, taking her back to the beginning of Time, when Night and Day were sisters. The star tells her how each day got divided into light and dark, each having its own value and beauty. Sulwe wakes up with a newfound appreciation of her own brightness and beauty.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
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This empowering story of a girl who's feeling left out because of her looks uses myth and fantasy to teach a lesson about accepting who you are and discovering your own beauty. Lupita Nyong'o's story is gentle and engaging, and Vashti Harrison's dazzling art shows a wide range of emotions (Sulwe's big eyes convey a lot), with wonderful contrasts of radiant sunny gold and dark brown, black, blue, and purple. Sulwe is a warm and personal exploration of a topic rarely discussed in children's literature.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Sulwe explores the idea of beauty. How can different people have different ideas of what's beautiful?

  • Do you like magical stories and legends about how the natural world works? Have you ever dreamed of flying among the stars? Where would you go if you could fly?

  • Have you ever noticed people getting treated differently because of their skin color? Why is that not OK?

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