The Geography of You and Me

Book review by
Darienne Stewart, Common Sense Media
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Sweet, smart romance is perfect vacation reading.

Parents say

age 11+
Based on 1 review

Kids say

age 12+
Based on 5 reviews

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The parents' guide to what's in this book.

Educational Value

Both Lucy and Owen are bright, curious teens, and their interests may encourage readers to try some of the books mentioned in the story. Lucy is a voracious reader, choosing authors and books that reflect her circumstances: Kafka, The Catcher in the Rye, Julius Caesar. Their travels offer a peek into different locations around the globe, making The Geography of You and Me a good choice for vacation reading.

Positive Messages

Lucy and Owen preserve their connection despite the physical distance between them and the vast difference in their family circumstances. It takes faith and effort to keep the spark alive. Open, honest communication helps them be authentic with each other and their families.


Positive Role Models & Representations

Both Owen and Lucy are independent, smart, and self-confident. As the near the age where they're to strike out on their own, they remain deeply invested in their families. Owen feels great responsibility for his father. He helps his dad with work, and takes ownership for a mistake that costs his father his job. Owen worries about leaving his dad for college but finds a reasonable solution. Lucy yearns to be closer to her parents and successfully reconnects with them. Her mother, in particular, proves supportive and loving while giving her daughter room to find her own path. Similarly, Owen's dad is devoted to him. Both teens engage in a little iffy conduct -- particularly Owen, who secretly copies his father's keys to the apartment building and trespasses on private property and drinks beer with a girlfriend.



Owen's mother died in a car accident before the start of the novel. Lucy briefly notes that she survived two muggings.



Both teens enjoy some kisses and cuddling, and there's a brief reference to making out. 



There's very little strong language, just "badass" and "hell."



Twitter and Facebook are mentioned dismissively.


Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Owen's mother smoked, and her habit may have contributed to her fatal car crash. Owen's dad occasionally smokes cigarettes from the pack recovered after the accident. A handyman asks teens to bring him some beer. After the initial festive camaraderie during the blackout, the atmosphere the next morning is described as a "hangover." There's a brief reference to high school boys sneaking their parents' alcohol. A peripheral character is described as smelling of pot. Owen drinks beer with a friend, and Lucy's parents allow her to have some beer and wine while living in Europe.


What parents need to know

Parents need to know that The Geography of You and Me is a sweet, charming romance with likable characters. It will strike a chord, especially, with teens who are preparing to part ways with friends and family and head off to college. It's really a coming-of-age story, packaged as a romance, that offers plenty of food for thought on fate, faith, and the strength (and fragility) of long-distance bonds.


User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of a 13-year-old Written bypart l. November 14, 2016

Not appropriate

not very good and bad
Teen, 13 years old Written bymona moon August 10, 2017


What abt making a movie abt this book
It will be the best movie
Teen, 13 years old Written June 8, 2017


I didn't really like this book. The beginning was good and made it seem like it was gonna be a good book, but I was very disappointed. It was very boring a... Continue reading

What's the story?

Lucy, 16, and Owen, 17, live in the same building in New York City, but they seem worlds apart: Lucy lives on the 24th floor with her globe-trotting parents, and Owen is in the basement with his newly widowed dad. A blackout traps them together in an elevator, and the pair end up spending a magical night on the skyscraper's roof, marveling at the stars. But soon after, the two find themselves separated: Lucy moves to Scotland with her parents, and Owen and his dad hit the open road. The two initially exchange postcards to keep in touch. But as they move physically farther apart, the emotional distance between them becomes increasingly difficult to bridge.


Is it any good?

THE GEOGRAPHY OF YOU AND ME is a smart, endearing romance. It has the classic elements of the genre: an enchanting how-they-met story, kids from opposite sides of the tracks, alluring and exotic locations, surprises and setbacks. Yet it's a smartly told story, with characters who win you over on their own merits. Lucy's and Owen's individual stories, told in alternating chapters, are just as absorbing as their shared journey.

Author Jennifer E. Smith has an engaging writing style, with terrific sensory appeal: It's easy to imagine yourself in the stifling hot, pitch-black elevator, or returning to Owen's long-vacant home. It isn't exactly obvious why Lucy and Owen are so taken with each other -- their connection seems unlikely to outlast the peculiar circumstances of their meeting. But it's a story about faith, told skillfully enough that skeptics will lower their defenses and root for Lucy and Owen to find their way to each other.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the teens' initial preference for postcards, instead of e-mail or text messages, to keep in touch. Do you think that's nostalgic on the author's part, or do you think the medium really matters?

  • Why do you think star-crossed lovers are such a popular theme in romance novels?

  • Do you think it's possible for long-distance romances to survive? How could you help a long-distance friendship thrive?

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