Parents' Guide to The In-Between

The In-Between book cover: Illustration that shows a young girl lying on a bed reading, sitting on the edge of a bed, studying at a desk, and reading in a chair

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Lucinda Dyer By Lucinda Dyer , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 10+

Haunting memoir of a turbulent six weeks in a teen's life.

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What's the Story?

THE IN-BETWEEN is where Katie Hendrich has spent much of her life. In-between homes, schools, and friendships. "I'm only thirteen but I've done a lot of living and moving, finding that all things eventually fall apart, in time, even me, especially me, no matter how well packed -- and that's okay, because it leaves space for better things to come together." Katie, her mother, brother Josh and sister Haley return to Atlanta from her grandfather's funeral to find they're being evicted. They move into an extended stay motel with a tiny kitchen, a single queen sized bed, and a rollaway bed for Josh. They've already moved dozens of times, sometimes for the promise of a new job for her mother that never worked out. With some moves there was time for proper goodbyes and time to pack treasured possessions, while others were rushed and "leave you sobbing in a new bedroom full of nothing ..." The thought of returning to school feels "apocalyptic" to Katie, as the motel is located out of district and she's terrified someone will find out. She doesn't even tell her closest friends where she's now living. Katie, John, and Haley get a break from the motel when they spend every other weekend with their father. Their parents divorced when Katie was 5 and he now lives in the Atlanta suburbs with his new wife. When Katie asks why they can't stay with him and move into the home's empty bedrooms, he says her mother won't agree to it.

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This heartbreakingly honest memoir paints an unforgettable picture of what life is like for children in families where a stable and secure tomorrow is never certain. The story ends on a hopeful note, and for readers wondering what the future held for Katie, the About the Author page in The In-Between notes that she graduated from Brown University and after teaching fifth-grade, is now an assistant principal. The book also includes several pages of black-and-white photos of Katie and her family from the late '90s and early 2000s.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the perseverance Katie shows in The In-Between. How does writing and journaling help her try to understand what's happening around her and offer her hope for the future?

  • Has there ever been a time when you've felt in-between -- at a new school or with friends or teammates? How did you get through it?

  • Katie didn't tell her friends she was living in an extended stay motel. Are there ever secrets you don't think should be shared with even your best friends?

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The In-Between book cover: Illustration that shows a young girl lying on a bed reading, sitting on the edge of a bed, studying at a desk, and reading in a chair

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