Parents' Guide to The Kite Runner

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Common Sense Media Review

Barbara Schultz By Barbara Schultz , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Brilliant, violent Afghanistan novel will enlighten teens.

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Why Age 16+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 16+

Based on 10 parent reviews

age 15+

Based on 54 kid reviews

Kids say that this book is a powerful, emotional read that deals with heavy and disturbing themes such as sexual violence, betrayal, and the harsh realities of life in Afghanistan. While many believe it offers valuable lessons and insights, especially for older teens, numerous reviewers caution that the graphic content makes it unsuitable for younger readers, with recommendations often suggesting an appropriate age of 14 or older, depending on individual maturity levels.

  • powerful themes
  • graphic content
  • maturity recommended
  • educational insights
  • emotional impact
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What's the Story?

In Khaled Hosseini's debut novel THE KITE RUNNER, Amir comes of age in 1970s Afghanistan. The son of a wealthy businessman, he grows up alongside Hassan, the son of his father's servant. Whereas Amir receives every advantage -- a fine house, extravagant gifts on his birthday, and a good education -- servile Hassan's illiterate and lives in a hut on the property of Amir's father, Baba. Amir's family members are Pashtuns, considered in their culture superior to Hazaras like Hassan and his father, Ali. Baba gives Hassan a lot of attention, which makes Amir competitive for his father's affection; when other Pashtun boys are around, Amir sets himself above Hassan, teasing him and shunning him. However, when it's just the two of them, they play together often, frequently running kites -- a sport where kite fighters try to cut each other's string, and boys run to catch the loose kites. When Amir wins a kite fight, Hassan runs to catch the last kite that Amir beat. After Hassan finds the second-place kite, some cruel boys find Hassan, and Amir witnesses something that affects his self-worth and his life path from that moment on.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 10 ):
Kids say ( 54 ):

This riveting book will certainly encourage teens to look at their world and "goodness" in new ways. Khaled Hosseini's debut created controversy among Afghan readers; the novel portrays Pashtuns as prejudiced toward Hazara people and treating them with degradation. The racial and religious extremism in the novel's certainly upsetting; the violence is horrifying. But the characters in The Kite Runner are beautifully realized, and their story's unforgettable.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Afghan people are portrayed in The Kite Runner. Is it different from the way you see them in the media? Did your perception of them change from reading the book?

  • What role does religion play in Amir's life? How does this compare with your life and your friends'?

  • Does this story make you want to learn more about Afghanistan's recent history? Khaled Hosseini's other novels, A Thousand Splendid Suns and And the Mountains Echoed, are a great place to start.

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