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Bipolar teen tries to help struggling dad in charming tale.
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What's the Story?
In THE LIGHTNESS OF HANDS, Ellie is a lonely 16-year-old battling bipolar II and feeling the wear and tear of living in an old RV with her formerly famous magician father. Ten years earlier, at the height of his career, her dad attempted a major feat of illusion on live television but failed spectacularly. Her mom died shortly thereafter, adding another layer of emotional complexity to an already rough life. Bouncing from one low-paying gig to another, they aren't making enough to live on and both have to sacrifice taking medications important to their emotional and physical well-being. When they seem to have hit bottom, Ellie gets a call from one of the most famous magic acts in the world asking whether her dad will agree to re-create his failed illusion as an opening act to their live television special in Los Angeles. She agrees, and as his manager negotiates the deal and signs the contract, all without telling her father. She knows he'll say no, but she thinks that if she can get him from the Midwest to L.A., she can convince him to go through with it. Along the way, she receives the support of Ripley, her only friend, and Liam, a romantic interest she meets at a magic gig. The journey exposes the seriousness of her mental health issues and her dad's heart problems, the need for stability in a child's life, and the importance of honesty and communication in relationships.
Is It Any Good?
This coming-of-age story has a slow start, but the engaging, relatable characters make it a charming read. The plot of The Lightness of Hands involves Ellie lying to her dad to get him to restage his notoriously failed magic act. But at its heart, the book is about Ellie's precarious mental health, trust between friends and family, and responsibility. It puts a human face on poverty and how easily kids slip through the cracks in terms of education and getting necessary services (medical and mental health help). Ellie is a sympathetic narrator, and her loneliness and struggle with her bipolar disorder are gripping. The book is a bit too long and some of the plot details feel contrived, but the story finds its footing after the halfway point.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about Ellie's mental health issues in The Lightness of Hands. Do you understand why it's hard for her to tell people close to her what's she's going through? Why do you think mental health is a common subject in books and movies?
How much responsibility should teens have to take on for their family's happiness and financial stability? Where is the balance between letting kids be kids and teaching them to be responsible young adults?
Have you ever done anything that took a lot of courage? What happened?
Book Details
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- Genre : Coming of Age
- Topics : Friendship
- Book type : Fiction
- Publisher : Balzer + Bray
- Publication date : April 14, 2020
- Publisher's recommended age(s) : 14 - 18
- Number of pages : 400
- Available on : Nook, Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, Apple Books, Kindle
- Last updated : September 29, 2025
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