Parents' Guide to Thirteen Reasons Why

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Terreece Clarke By Terreece Clarke , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Disturbing suicide novel examines bullying, indifference.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 14+

Based on 37 parent reviews

age 13+

Based on 162 kid reviews

Kids say that the book, while engaging and thought-provoking, tackles heavy topics such as suicide, bullying, and sexual assault, leading to mixed reactions about its appropriateness for younger readers. Many believe it contains valuable lessons on the impact of one’s actions but is criticized for potentially romanticizing suicide, making it crucial for parents to discuss the content with their children before or after reading.

  • sensitive topics
  • heavy emotions
  • valuable lessons
  • parental discussion
  • emotional impact
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What's the Story?

When Clay Jensen receives audio tapes in the mail, he's horrified to hear his dead crush's voice coming out of the stereo. Hannah lists 13 reasons why she killed herself and the 13 people responsible for it. Clay is racked with guilt as he waits to hear how he could have been involved in her tragic decision.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 37 ):
Kids say ( 162 ):

Teens will identify with the sometimes-oppressive culture of high school. First-time author Jay Asher's story presents the dark side of teen life: drinking, sex, rumor mills, suicides, cries for help, inept or absent adults, and the mean spirit that surrounds the general high school student body. Here everyone's a victim, an enabler, or a perpetrator, and some of the characters are all three, including Hannah Baker. Her tapes and reasoning are, at times, just as selfish and mean as those she accuses. And, although we see some of the 13 characters not showing much remorse, the majority of them are already burdened with "should haves" when Hannah's tapes arrive.

For any teens who've had dark thoughts of their own, the aftermath of Hannah's decision and the conclusions Clay reaches hopefully will make them think again. But this book has messages that will reach all teens: Hannah warns that we must "be careful how you treat people, you never know how it will affect them." Readers also will realize that inaction -- whether to stop a crime or a rumor or talk to a troubled student, friend, or child -- can be just as damaging as deliberately inflicting pain.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about suicide. Do books and movies that tackle tough topics such as this one glamorize suicide and other dangerous behaviors, or do they provide an important outlet and opportunities for discussion?

  • Hannah warns her listeners to "be careful how you treat people, you never know how it will affect them." Is this something that teens need to be reminded of? Do you see a lot of bullying and indifference at your own high school?

  • Why do you think this book has remained a bestseller for so many years?

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