Parents' Guide to Tiger Daughter

Tiger Daughter book cover: Asian Australian girl in blue coat with long black hair and eyes closed wears yellow backpack centered on white graph paper with notebook holes on left

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age 12+

Scary, abusive father in frustrating, heartbreaking tale.

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What's the Story?

In TIGER DAUGHTER, Wen Zhou is trying to escape an abusive father and unbearable family home. She plans with her best friend Henry to take the entrance exam to a selective school far away from home, a place where they can thrive together. But before the exam, her best friend, Henry, suffers a family tragedy, and Wen can't even easily help her friend because of her insanely strict father's rules and demands. Her mother also greatly suffers under her husband's abuse, but how will their lives change for the better? How can they get free from Wen's father?

Is It Any Good?

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There's a lot to admire about the bravery involved in telling a story like this. Tiger Daughter's main messages of hope and continuing to try no matter what come through amidst the constant bombardment of the abusive father's behavior. Without its hopeful ending, however, this middle grade novel might just be too heavy for many readers. Indeed, 90 percent of this story is spent under the father's reign of emotional, psychological, and occasional physical abuse, which is all very draining and very sad. This is an emotionally dark read, even if in the last few pages there is reason to hope for a happier life for Wen and her mother.

On top of all this, there's a brutal suicide, the difficult aftermath, and the near constant danger of Wen's father frequently almost catching Wen and her mother trying to help the family affected by the suicide. Throw in some danger of strangers stalking a girl through dark streets, racial slurs slung at Chinese Australians, and the possibility of some of these character representations reinforcing damaging stereotypes about Chinese Australian people, this book has its drawbacks. However, its messages are ultimately positive and the daughter at the center is a strong lead who manages to survive and get out from under the abuse of her father. Readers who relate to aspects of Wen or Henry's life will especially find comfort in their resilience.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about abuse, violence in the home, and trauma in middle grade novels. The scary daily life that the father in Tiger Daughter makes his family endure is horrible. How did reading about Wen's life make you feel?

  • Why do you think Wen and her mother took so long to fight back against the father? How did they find the courage to stand up to him?

  • How does Wen protect her mother from the father throughout the novel? How does her mother protect Wen?

  • What other things might a daughter and mother do to get out of a dangerous family home situation?

  • What makes Wen's father change in the end of the novel? Do you think he changes overall?

Book Details

  • Author : Rebecca Lim
  • Genre : Family Life
  • Topics : Friendship
  • Character Strengths : Compassion , Courage , Empathy
  • Book type : Fiction
  • Publisher : Delacorte Press
  • Publication date : August 15, 2023
  • Publisher's recommended age(s) : 10 - 12
  • Number of pages : 192
  • Available on : Paperback, Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, Apple Books, Kindle
  • Last updated : September 18, 2025

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