Parents' Guide to Trying to Float: Coming of Age in the Chelsea Hotel

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Jan Carr By Jan Carr , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Funny, moving memoir of eccentric childhood in New York.

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What's the Story?

TRYING TO FLOAT: COMING OF AGE IN THE CHELSEA HOTEL is the story of author Nicolaia Rips, who was raised in New York City's Chelsea Hotel in the company of artists and eccentrics. With her parents focused more on sitting in cafes and swilling gin than planning kids' birthday parties, Rips has to chart her own path. In elementary school, she's far outside the social stream and often lonely. In middle school, she survives by making other offbeat friends. The book ends triumphantly with her acceptance into New York City's premiere arts high school, and we know this savvy writer will end up on top.

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This funny, touching memoir of a child raised in an adult world is was written by the author when still a teen (as she still is), and narrated with a tart wit and clever turn of phrase. Trying to Float: Coming of Age in the Chelsea Hotel is told in short, punchy chapters structured as vignettes with recurring characters and themes that showcase Rips as a wry observer of odd adult behavior and her social-climbing peers. Her voice is as distinct as her experiences among some of New York City's most colorfully unconventional eccentrics, and though readers might suspect that she sometimes exaggerates for humor, like a younger David Sedaris, it's all in good fun.

Rips is on shakiest ground when recounting her younger years, when her point of view sounds far too adult to be believably that of a preschooler. Did her 5-year-old self really look at a friend's aunt and think she was "dreaming of a beach in Tahiti with someone other than her husband"? The book works best for young readers when she gets to middle school and the vignettes focus on her efforts to find a place in the social pecking order. While her experiences may be sophisticated and distinctly New York, young readers will find her attempts to navigate the social stream highly relatable.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the author's experiences in Trying to Float: Coming of Age in the Chelsea Hotel. How was her childhood different from yours? Are there ways it was similar?

  • How does Rips deal with the social pecking order at school? How do you deal with it?

  • How did Rips turn her experiences into stories that come together to make a whole? Do you think all the details are completely true?

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