Valentine Princess: A Princess Diaries Book

V-Day romance fluff for Princess series fans.

What parents need to know

Positive messages

She's a strong kid who knows herself and speaks her mind, though influences of drinking and sex are around her.


Concern over disappearance of Grandmere and her new friendship with a "David Koresh-Fundamentalist-Mormon-Rasputin" type.


Mentioning of being a virgin and waiting to sleep with boys on prom night. Mia kisses her boyfriend. Girls talk about breasts being huge or being flat-chested, or having implants.


Very tame. Loose teen jargon such as "sucky," "I was like," or "she was all."


All over the pages: Maury, Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, Hallmark, Kay Jewelers, Teen People, the Today Show, Michael Jackson.

Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Mia fixes grandmother her mixed drinks. Mom tells story of girls who died from the drug ecstasy.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that there's prolific mention of name brands, usage of teenage jargon "like" and "she was all," and discussion of first romantic encounters. There are references to sidecar drinks, flat and big-chested girls, losing virginity on prom night, and kids using the drug Ecstasy. While this book appeals to younger tweens, the princess' teen issues are a better fit for readers 12 and up.

What's the story?

Sixteen-year-old Princess Mia is sitting in her limo about to travel to Genovia for the summer. That's when she discovers her journal from one and a half years ago and finds the section about Valentine's Day with her boyfriend Michael. He does not believe in the holiday, while she finds it a special time to express how she feels about him. Friends offer input, agreeing and disagreeing. In the meantime, her Princess lessons with her Grandmere have stopped as her Grandmere has developed a friendship with a mystic Dr. Steve and has disappeared, except for appearances on talk shows.

Is it any good?


Hugely successful author Meg Cabot has cornered the market on writing for female tweens, having created a character that is very relatable as a gawky high school student yet fulfills young girls' fantasies of being a princess. This volume in the series is also written as journal entries. In VALENTINE PRINCESS Mia is actually rereading a diary from a year and a half before her first Valentine's Day with her boyfriend Michael.

Mia's a good kid at heart with strong morals and resistance to peer pressure, but there's not much here in the way of substance or tough challenges for her to face, making her a less relatable and engaging character and this series less meaningful. Overall, this is fun fluff that will be hard for readers to put down.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about Valentine's Day -- what is this holiday about? Is it a means for card companies to earn money or are there meaningful, cost-free ways to observe it? Even though Mia is a princess, how is she still relatable to readers? Why does Mia keep a journal? Parents can point out how the process of journaling helps kids make sense of events in their lives -- a valuable tool during the tumultuous tween/teen years.

Book details

Author:Meg Cabot
Genre:Coming of Age
Topics:Princesses and fairies
Book type:Fiction
Publisher:HarperCollins Children's Books
Publication date:December 1, 2006
Number of pages:96
Publisher's recommended age(s):12
Read aloud:12
Read alone:12

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Kid, 11 years old December 12, 2010
age 11+

For Middle School Kids

I loved this book! It was an amazing read, and read every single book in the series! Love this book; love Meg Cabot! This book is very good but more of a middle school book. ~Sydney
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Too much sex
Teen, 15 years old Written bymanda17 April 19, 2009
age 12+

Anyone 12 and Up

I read this book before, and I have to say a warning to parents that have younger kids interested in this book. THE MOVIE DOES NOT HAVE THE INNAPROPRIATE PARTS OF IT! This book was made into a Disney movie, but although the movie is rated PG. The book has more dirty language, and some sexual references.
Teen, 13 years old Written byraca99 April 18, 2009
age 8+


It is a wounderful book and that's pretty much all that to it ,its awesome!


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