We Are Okay

Book review by Lucinda Dyer, Common Sense Media
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Common Sense says

age 14+

Memorable story of friendship, loss, and family secrets.

Parents say

age 14+

Based on 2 reviews

Kids say

age 13+

Based on 4 reviews

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age 12+

Loved it!

Beautiful novel, 'We are okay' is a book I've read many times! I can never get bored of it, nor do I ever stop crying. Yes, there are various uses of f**k but nothing that a mature, confident 12 year old reader can take! And I'm just after reading the other reviews saying they hated it! But it was amazing! Please listen to what I've said and read the book without any caution of not liking it, trust me you'll love it!

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Too much swearing
age 16+

18 year old

I thought the writing was spectacular and I finished the book within a few hours. However, there was more language than what was described in the review. The F word was used about 5 times I believe, which just caught me off guard. But over all the book was great.

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Our Editors Recommend

For kids who love coming-of-age and grief stories

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