Parents' Guide to

Weekends with Max and His Dad

By Joly Herman, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 6+

Playful, realistic tale of adjusting to life after divorce.

Book Linda Urban Family Life 2016
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Based on 1 parent review

JadeKS
JadeKS Adult
April 5, 2018
age 4+

Any age a child might be going through a divorce is a good age for this book

 A lot of positive messages can be brought up when looking at the story of Max and his Dad. Good can come from divorce even if there are challenges and those challenges, as well as feelings people may have when adjusting to new spaces and situations are ok. So many kids have to go through divorce, and a book highlighting not just the negative but the positive aspects of this can help so much for a healing family. There are topics of self-esteem, and adjusting to new circumstances to talk about, along with the love parent's have for their children even if other things may change.

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Educational value
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What's the Story?

After Max's parents divorce, his dad moves into an apartment in a neighborhood not far away from Max's mom's house. Third-grader Max is visiting for the first weekend in the apartment, and they begin by playing an intricate game of spies. Max's dad is Agent Cheese, and Max is Agent Pepperoni. Even though Agent Cheese doesn't quite have the spy lingo down, the two explore the new neighborhood undercover. And even though Max isn't really comfortable in his new bed, he knows that Agent Cheese is on the lookout for any suspicious activity. The next weekend, the two take a trip to "INEEDA" in search of some much-needed furniture. They come home with a couch called Olle and a plastic squirrel named Knut. There's dog walking, pizza eating, ukulele playing, and, yes, there are blues. In the end, Max gets more comfortable with a very big change, and his dad shows Max that he always has a home.

Is It Any Good?

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This expertly written story shows that life after divorce has bumps, but it can be all right. WEEKENDS WITH MAX AND HIS DAD is not a gritty, in-your-face tale of loss. There's a sense of loss, and Max displays anxiety, but these characteristics are integrated, not spotlighted. For example, at times Max feels like "somebody is sitting on his chest." Sometimes he needs to run around -- a lot. On the day his dad moved out, Max was sent to his friend Warren's house, kept busy with movies and ice cream -- "too busy to think about what was going on in his house."

Weekends with Max and His Dad provides a perfect opportunity for parents and kids to discuss divorce. The message is couched in the action. Max and his dad do stuff. Imbued in the stuff they do is the fact that life has changed forever -- but that they can make it through without losing themselves. With subtlety, it promotes a positive, natural dialogue about a very big life event.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how the media portrays divorced families. Which books, movies, or TV shows illustrate families like Max's? Are they realistic? What does your family look like?

  • Max and his dad have a pretty easy relationship. What do you think works for them? What is Max afraid of?

  • How does the porcupine project help Max come to terms with his new living situation?

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