We're All Wonders

Book review by
Regan McMahon, Common Sense Media
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Boy who's different promotes kindness in fresh empathy tale.

Parents say

age 18+
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age 2+
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Educational Value

Shows emotional intelligence -- being aware of how what we say and do affects other people. Clues readers in to what it's like to feel different from everybody else. 

Positive Messages

We are all wonders, meaning everyone is unique and special. I'm not the only one who's different -- everybody's different! "The Earth is big enough for all kinds of people." "I know I can't change the way I look. But maybe, just maybe ... people can change the way they see." "Look with kindness and you will always find wonder." 

Positive Role Models & Representations

Auggie is kind and thoughtful, knows how to make himself feel better when he's feeling hurt, and reaches out to others. He believes if people can see that he's a wonder, they'll see that "they're wonders, too. We're all wonders!"

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What parents need to know

Parents need to know that R.J. Palacio's We're All Wonders presents Auggie, the facially disfigured main character of her award-winning middle-grade novel Wonderto the younger picture book audience. Here Auggie, who's seen in Palacio's stylized art as having only one eye, like on the cover of Wonder, tells readers how it feels to be treated badly because he looks different. He says that when kids point at him and stare and say unkind things behind his back that he can hear, it hurts his feelings. He encourages kids to acknowledge that we're all different. His mom says he's a "wonder," and he wants people to see they're wonders, too. "We're all wonders," he says. This sensitive yet direct book is great for teaching empathy and promoting kindness. It could spark discussions about bullying and treating one another with respect and compassion. 

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Kid, 9 years old December 8, 2017

Inspiring

I think everything about August Pullman is not bad, but not all is the best. I think this gives kids a great message; that looks don't matter. For older ki... Continue reading

What's the story?

In WE'RE ALL WONDERS, Auggie says, "I know I am not an ordinary kid," even though he does ordinary things like ride a bike, eat ice cream, and play ball. "I just don't look ordinary," says the boy who appears to have only one eye. He tells readers that kids sometimes point and stare at him, and he can hear them say mean things behind his back, and it hurts his feelings. When this happens, he puts on this space helmet and pretends to blast off into space with his dog. Looking down at our planet, he reflects, "The Earth is big enough for all kinds of people." Back on Earth, he suggests, "I can't change the way I look, but maybe, just maybe ... people can change the way they see." 

Is it any good?

This simple, engaging, wise book is full of positive messages about respecting differences, being kind, and showing empathy -- all expressed with a light touch and presented in an attractive package. Author-illustrator R.J. Palacio's bright, cartoon-like art is a perfect compliment to the spare and direct text.

The book is never preachy and strikes just the right tone for its young audience. It could spark important discussions about bullying, treating other kids with respect, being sensitive to other people's feelings, and having empathy for their challenges.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how being different is viewed in We're All Wonders. How does Auggie feel when kids stare at him and talk about him? How does the art show that Auggie and his dog had their feelings hurt? 

  • When Auggie's feelings are hurt, he puts on his space helmet and pretends to blast off into outer space. What do you do to feel better when someone hurts your feelings?

  • What do you think Auggie means when he says, "We're all wonders"? 

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