Parents' Guide to

While I Was Away

By John Sooja, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 12+

Girl finds Japanese roots in sweet, reflective memoir.

Book Waka T. Brown School 2021
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Even though not much happens, this middle grade memoir is incredibly well written. While I Was Away is straightforward and plods along a bit, but author Waka T. Brown's writing really helps her story feel alive and genuine. Waka's thoughts, feelings, worries, perspectives, opinions, and entire inner world is beautifully realized. As a positive role model, Waka is a good daughter, friend, and student. She's insightful, honest, open, and fair. In all respects, Waka is a brave 12-year-old girl facing a scary situation. She must move to another country by herself and live there for five months. She will have a different home, go to a different school, hear a different language, be submersed in a different culture, customs, rules, and traditions. Brown's memoir also provides a great example of what it's like for many children who have feet in two or more cultures. Waka's racialized experiences in Japanese school in 1985 doesn't sound too different from what many children in American schools face.

Some readers might be shocked, however, by some of the parental behavior in this book. An author's note at the end explains, "What might be shocking to us now wasn't shocking in 1984, and what was shocking in 1984 wasn't back when my parents were children." Brown further explains that in Japan teachers today aren't allowed to hit their students, just as this isn't allowed in American schools. Unfortunately, some readers might end up wishing there was some way to mention this idea in the memoir proper, as without doing so (and combined with the only other reference to child abuse being one of Japanese parental abuse), some readers might get the impression that Japan or Asian nations are more archaic, harsh, abusive, "savage," inhumane, and/or not as civilized than their Western counterparts.

Book Details

  • Author: Waka T. Brown
  • Genre: School
  • Topics: Middle School
  • Book type: Non-Fiction
  • Publisher: Quill Tree Books
  • Publication date: January 26, 2021
  • Publisher's recommended age(s): 10 - 14
  • Number of pages: 320
  • Available on: Nook, Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, iBooks, Kindle
  • Last updated: August 2, 2021

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