21 Grams

Movie review by
Nell Minow, Common Sense Media
21 Grams Movie Poster Image
Thought-provoking film not for tweens/young teens.
  • R
  • 2003
  • 125 minutes

Parents say

age 16+
Based on 2 reviews

Kids say

age 17+
Based on 1 review

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A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Graphic violence, including shooting. Tragic deaths and brutal violence with gory wounds.


Very explicit sexual references and situations, nudity and a brief glimpse of a porno film.


There is very strong language.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Characters drink, smoke, and use drugs.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this film includes tragic deaths and brutal violence with gory wounds. There are explicit sexual references and situations, including nudity and a brief glimpse of a porno film. Characters drink, smoke, and use drugs. A character attempts suicide. There is very strong language.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byMovieLover4Lyfe May 26, 2010
This seems like a thought provoking movie, and I think I will be viewing it soon!
Adult Written byjumpinbini April 9, 2008
This movie encompasses almost every tragic situation that could ever happen in life. This film is very intense, and depressing. Three lives come together in a t... Continue reading
Teen, 15 years old Written bymadlion924 July 25, 2009

Wish I Hadn't Seen It

Extreme amounts of sexual nudity
Strong language throughout
Somewhat sacrilege

What's the story?

In 21 GRAMS, a terrible collision shatters more than the lives of three people. It shatters the very narrative of the story itself. Director Alejandro Gonzalez Inarritu conveys the fractured disorientation of the three main characters with clusters of brief scenes that act as a mosaic, gradually revealing what happened in that devastating moment and how it affected the events and emotions that followed, even the impact on the very identities of the people involved. Paul (Sean Penn) is dying. His heart is failing. His wife wants to find a way to have his child. Jack (Benicio Del Toro) is struggling. He has come out of prison with a fierce new religious faith that has his wife and children a little uneasy. Christina (Naomi Watts) is happy. She has overcome a substance abuse problem and is living happily with her husband and daughters. Then a corner is turned. A driver -- maybe in too much of a hurry to get to a birthday party, maybe having had a drink -- hits three pedestrians. Lives are lost. Another life is restored. Another is devastated. Is there a way to go on?

Is it any good?

Penn gives one of the most sensitive performances of his career. He usually plays characters who are not as smart as he is, but here he is completely convincing as a math professor, and he shows us an extraordinary range of subtle and complex emotions. Watts and Del Toro are also outstanding. Inarritu uses a hand-held camera and directs with a simple, intimate, very pure feeling similar in style to the Dogma 95 movies.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about why Inarritu chose to tell the story this way. How would its impact have been different if told in a more conventional structure?

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