Parents' Guide to A Girl Like Her

Movie PG-13 2015 94 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 12+

Bullying drama is disturbing but should spark conversation.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 7 parent reviews

age 13+

Based on 21 kid reviews

Kids say the movie effectively captures the raw emotions and harsh realities of bullying, delivering a powerful message that resonates particularly with middle and high school students. While praised for its emotional depth and strong portrayal of the consequences of bullying, viewers note the need for parental guidance due to its mature themes and language.

  • realistic portrayal
  • powerful message
  • emotional depth
  • suitable for teens
  • parental guidance advised
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What's the Story?

A GIRL LIKE HER is a fictionalized documentary about bullying at South Brookdale High School. When sophomore Jessica Burns (Lexi Ainsworth) attempts suicide by swallowing her mother's sleeping pills and ends up comatose, the "documentarian" interviews teachers, administrators, and other students to figure out what went gone wrong. One name keeps popping up as a possible motivator for Jessica's depression: Avery Keller (Hunter King), whom many students recall being mean to Jessica. The filmmaker decides to follow Avery to tell her side of the story, but Avery denies she did anything besides occasionally joke around with Jessica ... until Jessica's best friend, Brian (Jimmy Bennett), reveals that he has video evidence of Avery's persistent threats and bullying.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 7 ):
Kids say ( 21 ):

This is a no-frills dramatic portrayal of the devastating impact of bullying. A Girl Like Her doesn't show the overtly physical variety of bullying, but rather the emotionally abusive kind that girls seems to specialize in: harassing texts, non-stop insults, locker pranks, threatening language, and more. King is fabulously (and frighteningly) believable as queen-bee bully Avery, who has troubles at home and takes it out on her former friend, Jessica. She, like so many adolescents, is unable to admit -- even to herself -- that she played any part in Jessica's decision to attempt suicide.


For parents, it won't be easy to watch A Girl Like Her, because it's difficult not to project your own child in the role of the victim. But it's also the role of the bully that audiences should be willing to accept. Avery isn't 100% evil; she's capable of redemption, even if it takes literally watching evidence of what she'd done to make her acknowledge the ugly truth. But it's only by discussing and taking a look at these truths that the bullying epidemic can be defeated. Brian's role in helping Jessica keep quiet about Avery mistreating her is also debated, with Jessica's grieving parents thanking him for being a good friend even though he could have (and maybe should have) told an adult about the situation earlier. A Girl Like Her is one of those movies you have trouble forgetting, but that's the point; see it, talk about it, and hope there are no Jessicas or Averys in your family.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about why the issue of teen bullying is getting addressed more frequently in popular culture. Is bullying as widespread as A Girl Like Her makes it seem? What are ways you can help stand up to bullying? Bullying is often seen as physical abuse, but A Girl Like Her shows that words are just as powerful. Talk about the different ways that people can bully others; what has the most lasting impact?

  • Parents, talk to your kids about teen suicide. This is an incredibly tough topic, but one that needs to be addressed. What makes some people think that it's their only option? What impact does their decision have on their friends and family? Where can kids in despair turn for assistance?

  • How do the characters in A Girl Like Her demonstrate compassion and empathy? Why are these important character strengths?

  • In one scene, a father shows compassion for the actual bullies, who often need as much help as those being bullied. How does this movie portray the bully? Why do you think she bullied her former friend?

  • Brian is stuck between wanting to keep his promise to Jessica and needing to tell others about her situation. Do you think it would have made him a bad friend to tell others before things went so far? What's the message here for teens who have friends suffering from bullying?

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