Parents' Guide to A Long Way to Come Home

Movie NR 2023 109 minutes
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Barbara Shulgasser-Parker By Barbara Shulgasser-Parker , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Woman faces challenges in a new country in confusing drama.

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What's the Story?

In A LONG WAY TO COME HOME, Aurora (Sheila Dare Aisha) is an art student sent to study in London by her Indonesian parents. The action begins at her boyfriend Jem's (Ganindra Bimo) art exhibition. Although it's not explained until more than an hour later, something goes wrong and he leaves in a huff. They fight as he blames her for some undisclosed transgression. Furious, he smashes her phone and other things, including her art project, and she packs and leaves. She's taken in by Kit (Jerome Kurnia) and Honey (Lutesha), two friends, and it's ever so slowly revealed that she had abandoned her own studies in order to help Jem, thereby missing her own deadlines. Now she has to come up with another year's tuition, forcing her to take odd jobs. Her brother Ang (Rio Dewanto) and sister show up from Jakarta, sent by their parents to find out what happened to Aurora and to bring her home. Ang punches Jem, who presses charges and lands Ang in jail. To get Jem to drop the charges, Aurora agrees to move back in with the abusive Jem. Out-of-sequence scenes and lots of important missing information make the narrative hard to follow.

Is It Any Good?

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A Long Way to Come Home is an unmitigated mess. From the moment it begins, it feels as if we have missed something, as if the filmmakers shot a bunch of scenes and then assembled them in random order, making no sense whatever. The narrative doesn't track, the story jumps from one scene, indicating the plot is moving in one direction, to another, where suddenly the world is completely different and no explanation has been offered. Aurora seems to move out of her friends' home to return to the abusive boyfriend. But the next scene she is back living with the friends. What happened? Perhaps she changed her mind, but where is the scene showing us why? The brother and sister visiting from Indonesia completely disappear from the plot. And when they reappear, it seems as if no time has passed, yet during their absence, Aurora has applied for and received a scholarship, which must have taken months to process. Were they sitting in a London hotel room all that time wondering what to do about Aurora? It sure looks that way.

The filmmakers seem to have no sense of dramatic emphasis and no recognition that some scenes and events are more important than others. Many scenes are accompanied by swelling, manipulatively emotional music even though nothing dramatic is happening visually. Multiple scenes with dialogue have no sound. What are the characters saying to each other? Why can't we know? It often feels like huge chunks of vital information are missing. The ineptitude of the direction and writing is breathtaking. Only an extremely likable and competent cast slightly redeems this indecipherable jumble of heartfelt but ultimately unruly narrative.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about what the story says about the importance of family. How do Aurora's siblings support her? How do they challenge her?

  • The movie makes the point that home may not be where you come from. How does Aurora recreate "family" in London? What is it about her new life in a foreign country that makes her feel at home?

  • Many scenes are presented out of sequence. Do you think this choice makes the movie better or is it a mistake? Why?

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