A Merry Friggin' Christmas

Movie review by
S. Jhoanna Robledo, Common Sense Media
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Great cast mired in limp holiday film about family baggage.
  • PG-13
  • 2014
  • 88 minutes

Parents say

age 14+
Based on 3 reviews

Kids say

age 14+
Based on 1 review

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The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Amid some of the contentious/iffy behavior is the message that you're never too old to keep believing in the magic of Christmas.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Characters are flawed and have issues, but Boyd is determined to make sure his young son has a magical Christmas. In large part, this is a response to his own childhood with a neglectful father, and Boyd's efforts may help him reconcile with his own dad.


Three men think they might have killed someone in a car accident and discuss ways to dispose of the body. Intense bickering among family members as long-buried grudges come to light.


Passionate kissing. A married couple bemoans their lack of intimacy.


Frequent swearing includes "bitch," "crap," ass," "hell," "t-ts," and "damn."


One character drives a BMW, and much is said about the quality of German automobiles. A clerk mentions Discover credit cards.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

One of the main characters likes cigars and has one clenched in his mouth in several scenes. Many scenes feature drinking, including wine and beer while socializing, plus harder drinks when two characters get quite drunk. A man in a Santa suit repeatedly asks for bourbon; when he's finally offered some, he chugs almost an entire bottle.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that A Merry Friggin' Christmas is about a dysfunctional family spending the holidays together, with some long-buried grudges ensuring plenty of tension. There's a crotchety old dad, a bitter adult son, and assorted oddball siblings. Expect a fair amount of drinking, with some characters getting pretty drunk; one character also likes to smoke cigars. There's also frequent swearing, though the words aren't as salty as in some films (it's' mostly "crap," "ass" and "bitch"), and some discussion about a married couple's less-than-active sex life. One scene takes place in a gas station restroom, with men urinating.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent Written byKimberly H. December 25, 2017

Hilarious, movie!!

Definitely not for younger children, especially if they’re believers of the guy in the big red suit!

My husband and two teenage kids loved this movie. Laughed... Continue reading
Adult Written byBestPicture1996 December 23, 2014

Unfunny, cringe worthy Xmas movie with 1 redeeming quality...

Robin Williams. Though he looks deflated and tired, Williams brings dignity to this terrible movie about, oh gee whiz, a dysfunctional Christmas family movie. Z... Continue reading

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What's the story?

Boyd (Joel McHale) has spent years avoiding his family, trying to make sure he's a better father than his own neglectful dad. And now that it's the holidays, he's working even harder to make sure that his son believes in the magic of the season. But all of his plans are upended when he and his family must spend Christmas with his parents (Robin Williams, in one of his last roles, and Candice Bergen). And just when Boyd thinks things couldn't get worse, he realizes he left his son's presents at home and must drive through the night -- with his dad -- to retrieve them in time for Christmas morning.

Is it any good?

A MERRY FRIGGIN' CHRISTMAS has its heart in the right place. Boyd is trying to be a good dad, while his own father is finally starting to come to terms with how he raised his kids. And some of the pain rings true, as Boyd and his siblings recall growing up with their often-drunk father.

But too much of the film has a sour taste, including slapstick humor that borders on insulting and demeaning (including recurring bits about how Boyd's brother was injured while in the army and his brother-in-law's police record). The script veers from moments that try to evoke warm familial feelings to crude humor, without managing to find a sweet spot for viewers to enjoy. In the end, the family does patch up some of its differences, but it's not all that fun to watch.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about Boyd's relationship with his son. How is it different from his relationship with his own dad, and how are they all connected? How is it similar to/different from other father-son relationships you've seen in movies and TV shows? Does it seem realistic?

  • Does it make sense for Boyd to make such an effort to preserve his son's belief in the magic of Christmas? Is there a larger underlying issue at play?

  • How does the family holiday in this film compare to holiday celebrations in other movies about the holidays? What are your own holiday traditions?

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