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A Merry Friggin' Christmas

By S. Jhoanna Robledo, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 14+

Great cast mired in limp holiday film about family baggage.

Movie PG-13 2014 88 minutes
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Based on 4 parent reviews

weeziethompson
weeziethompson Parent of 8-year-old
December 11, 2022
age 18+

Depressing

Williams seems to have given up. His eyes tell the whole story. It’s not humorous, funny or enlightening. Avoid at all costs.
Kimberly H.
Kimberly H. Parent
December 25, 2017
age 14+

Hilarious, movie!!

Definitely not for younger children, especially if they’re believers of the guy in the big red suit! My husband and two teenage kids loved this movie. Laughed they entire movie. However, I’m glad we watched it once our two younger ones went to bed. Great movie!!! It sure was pushing the rating bar. Many times it spoke about sex and a man being a pervert. I love my cheesy Hallmark movies probably more than the rest, but I enjoyed this movie, because, #1 it was funny, and #2, let’s get real, some families are disfunctional.
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What's the Story?

Boyd (Joel McHale) has spent years avoiding his family, trying to make sure he's a better father than his own neglectful dad. And now that it's the holidays, he's working even harder to make sure that his son believes in the magic of the season. But all of his plans are upended when he and his family must spend Christmas with his parents (Robin Williams, in one of his last roles, and Candice Bergen). And just when Boyd thinks things couldn't get worse, he realizes he left his son's presents at home and must drive through the night -- with his dad -- to retrieve them in time for Christmas morning.

Is It Any Good?

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A MERRY FRIGGIN' CHRISTMAS has its heart in the right place. Boyd is trying to be a good dad, while his own father is finally starting to come to terms with how he raised his kids. And some of the pain rings true, as Boyd and his siblings recall growing up with their often-drunk father.

But too much of the film has a sour taste, including slapstick humor that borders on insulting and demeaning (including recurring bits about how Boyd's brother was injured while in the army and his brother-in-law's police record). The script veers from moments that try to evoke warm familial feelings to crude humor, without managing to find a sweet spot for viewers to enjoy. In the end, the family does patch up some of its differences, but it's not all that fun to watch.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Boyd's relationship with his son. How is it different from his relationship with his own dad, and how are they all connected? How is it similar to/different from other father-son relationships you've seen in movies and TV shows? Does it seem realistic?

  • Does it make sense for Boyd to make such an effort to preserve his son's belief in the magic of Christmas? Is there a larger underlying issue at play?

  • How does the family holiday in this film compare to holiday celebrations in other movies about the holidays? What are your own holiday traditions?

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