A Single Man

Movie review by
S. Jhoanna Robledo, Common Sense Media
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Mature drama about loss is visually striking but hollow.
  • R
  • 2009
  • 99 minutes

Parents say

age 15+
Based on 1 review

Kids say

age 16+
Based on 3 reviews

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The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

The movie deals with the impact of the loss of a loved one; it's a hard topic, but it's explored in an honest way. Friendship appears to be a lifeline, but only just.

Positive Role Models & Representations

George is a once-lively man who has lost his will to live following the death of his longtime companion. But even in his darkest hours, he’s compassionate and able to find moments of joy, if only fleetingly.


A man buys bullets for a gun. He practices different ways he could shoot himself. A man dies in a car accident; his body is shown on the ground, bloodied.


Lots of instances in which men are shown nude (though not from the front), frolicking in the ocean or floating underwater. Two men kiss. Discussion between a man and a woman about their previous coupling.


A few instances of swearing (“s--t”).


Some labels shown, including Bayer, Coca-Cola, Hershey’s.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Some period-accurate smoking. Characters are also shown drinking, some to inebriation.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that the subject matter of this 1960s-set indie drama -- which centers on a man who's deeply mourning the loss of his longtime boyfriend and is desperate to find a reason to go on -- may be too heavy/morbid for younger teens (and even some older ones). The idea of suicide is explored, and the main character's world feels incredibly bleak at times, though he does manage to find moments of joy. Expect a fair amount of male nudity (though no frontal shots), plus some smoking, drinking, and swearing ("s--t").

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byJune50 July 25, 2010

Promising directorial debut

May contain some spoilers. Its not a great movie but I think its good and more than just nice to look at. Colin Firth gives a great performance which alone is w... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written byMy1ten0baby January 10, 2014
Kid, 11 years old January 20, 2012

What's the story?

George (Colin Firth), a British professor teaching in 1960s Los Angeles, is bereft. With his beloved longtime boyfriend, Jim (Matthew Goode), gone -- killed in a car accident -- it’s increasingly difficult for George to find a reason to go on. Based on Christopher Isherwood’s novel of the same name, A SINGLE MAN follows George from morning to night at his job, during run-ins with his neighbor (Ginnifer Goodwin), at dinner with his best friend (Julianne Moore), and through time spent with a student (Nicholas Hoult) -- a fateful day when he tries to arrive at the meaning of it all and decide what his future holds ... if anything.

Is it any good?

It’s no surprise that Tom Ford, the visionary behind the magnificently tailored Gucci line, has fashioned a stunning film. Every scene is elegantly framed, lit, and hued; every character is sophisticatedly turned out. In this way, A SINGLE MAN is a singular feat, easily one of the handsomest movies made in 2009. But though he displays a sure hand as director, Ford’s approach to the material rests a bit too heavily on the visual and too gently on the emotional -- surprising, considering that the film is about a man deeply in mourning. Somehow it all comes off a bit clinically -- life here is too beautifully tragic. You wonders what kind of heft the story would have carried had it not been pintucked so carefully.

That said, Firth is remarkable as a man in love but lost. His restrained-but-obvious grief rescues the movie somewhat from its too-pretty perch. Nobody does “damaged hysteria” better than Moore, but it’s too reminiscent of her other roles (Boogie Nights, for instance), which makes it less potent. It’s clear that Ford has respect for his actors’ gifts, but the ending isn’t credible, and the storytelling is oddly removed and stripped of authentic melancholy.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how the movie portrays loss. What would it be like to be in George's shoes? Have you ever lost a loved one? Do George's feelings and reactions seem realistic?

  • How do society's norms during the time the movie takes place affect George's sense of isolation? How have (or haven't) things changed since then?

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