Parents' Guide to A Tale of Love and Darkness

Movie PG-13 2016 95 minutes
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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Portman's biopic of Israeli writer is earnest, ethereal.

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What's the Story?

A TALE OF LOVE AND DARKNESS -- Academy Award-winning actress Natalie Portman's directorial debut -- is an adaptation of Israeli novelist Amos Oz' same-named memoir about his boyhood in Israel to parents who lost their families in the Holocaust. At the end of World War II, Israel is still British-controlled Palestine, filled with Jews who escaped the atrocities of anti-Semitic Europe. Oz' (Amir Tessler) father Arieh (Gilad Kahana) is an aspiring academic, while his mother, Fania (Portman), is a fabulous storyteller who adores her sensitive son. As Oz grows up -- during the turbulent times surrounding creation of Israel -- his mother grows more and more seriously depressed.

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Portman's directorial debut sensitively and ethereally depicts the nuances of Amos Oz' upbringing alongside the creation of Israel. The Academy Award-winning actor-director is herself Israeli (she has dual citizenship) and fluent in Hebrew, and she obviously cares about the subject material -- Oz' childhood memoir and tribute to his mother, whose tales about her pre-WWII life in Rivne (now a part of Ukraine) fueled his love of stories. Portman delivers on her dual role as director and co-star (her large, expressive eyes are ideal for conveying a sense melancholy).

Tessler also does a fine job playing the young Oz, but A Tale of Love and Darkness is just as much about his mother and Israel's early days as it is about his own boyhood experiences. While splitting the time between two main characters makes sense, since clearly the stories are intertwined, occasionally you wish for a little more of Oz' complex mother, whose motivations and tragedies are unknowable, of course, because the story is told from her son's perspective. Those hoping for a broad look at Oz' life should know that the movie covers only a sliver of his life -- particularly the years between 1945 and 1952, when Israel becomes a nation and his mother battles the depression that ultimately claimed her life.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about A Tale of Love and Darkness as an adaptation of a biographical memoir. How does this "biopic" compare to most? Why do you think it focuses so much on the author's early life and relationship with his parents?

  • Discuss the movie's violence. Does realistic, war-themed violence impact viewers differently than stylized or cartoonish violence? Why might that be?

  • Which characters demonstrate empathy? Why is that an important character strength?

  • How is mental illness portrayed in the movie? Do you think it's sympathetic? Realistic?

  • What do you think the author means about two oppressed peoples, "cousins" if you will, fighting each other instead of banding together? What's the significance of the fact that Amos and the young Arab girl he meets know each other's language?

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