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A Wake
By John Sooja,
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Solid indie drama has violence, cursing, drugs.

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What's the Story?
In A WAKE, Mason (Noah Urrea) is mourning the loss of his twin brother, Mitchel (also Noah Urrea). Growing up in a strict Christian household, Mason knew his brother was gay and also knew he had to hide this fact from their parents. But questions surround Mitchel's death. Who is responsible? Was it accidental as the coroner claimed? Did Jameson (Kolton Stewart) provide Mitchel with pills? What about the cyberbullying behavior Mitchel was a victim of?
Is It Any Good?
This is a solid indie drama that shows what many young gay teens growing up in strict Christian households and communities have experienced and might continue to experience. In A Wake, the kinds of homophobia that Mitchel faced in his daily life were all-encompassing and pervasive. With little room for tolerance within the home and outside the home (at school, in the streets), Mitchel had very little free space to be himself. The film also does well not to completely demonize Mitchel's devoutly Christian family, either. The father is given some humanity in his pain and confusion. The grandmother is diplomatic and calmly understanding of each position. And the little sister, of course, is given space to be young and naive.
There are a few missteps, however. Mason's initial interest in psychics and a Ouija board is understandable but also loses its purpose halfway through once Jameson makes it clear he's not into it. Further, while Jameson is presented as an incredibly nice, well-mannered, and decent young Black man, it's hard to believe that he wouldn't have the street smarts or awareness not to so brazenly out himself in the midst of an incredibly hateful family. He would've known from Mitchel that his family was incredibly intolerant of homosexuality and even Black people, so it was odd to see Jameson so comfortably speak about his love for Mitchel in front of his parents and pastor, all of whom explicitly believe that being gay is a sin and will end with your soul burning in hell forever.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about violence in family dramas. In A Wake, some non-physical forms of violence happens in the family home and in school. How would you define this kind of violence?
Discuss the kind of home and family environment represented in this movie. Why do you think some strict Christian households seem intolerant of certain people, despite Jesus Christ preaching tolerance and acceptance of everyone?
If you were in Jameson's shoes, would you have said what he said at the wake? Why or why not?
Movie Details
- In theaters: September 2, 2019
- On DVD or streaming: August 31, 2021
- Cast: Noah Urrea , Kolton Stewart , Sofia Rosinsky , Megan Trout
- Director: Scott Boswell
- Studio: Breaking Glass Pictures
- Genre: Drama
- Run time: 97 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: June 20, 2023
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