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By Sakhi Thirani
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based on child development research. How do we rate?
Bollywood romcom includes sexual themes, mild language.
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Aap Jaisa Koi
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What's the Story?
In AAP JAISA KOI, Shrirenu (R. Madhavan) and Madhu (Fatima Sana Shaikh) meet for the first time ahead of their prospective arranged marriage. However, the pair couldn't be more different. Shrirenu is an old-school traditionalist, while Madhu is confident and free-spirited. Will their differing worldviews prevent true love from forming between the two?
Is It Any Good?
This Indian romantic drama has an interesting premise but struggles with execution. Despite a talented cast, particularly leads Madhavan and Shaikh, Aap Jaisa Koi falls into familiar romantic comedy patterns. The film attempts to address traditional versus modern values but comes across as preachy rather than genuinely progressive. Characters remain underdeveloped, and problematic behavior is too easily resolved with simple apologies. While the movie may appeal to fans of Bollywood romance, the predictable plot and shallow character development limit its impact. Director Vivek Soni's film promises more depth than it delivers, ultimately feeling like a missed opportunity to meaningfully explore the clash between traditional and contemporary relationship values.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how Aap Jaisa Koi portrayed sex and relationships. Was it affectionate? Respectful? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.
Discuss how various characters responded to traditional gender roles and patriarchal expectations. Which characters challenged these ideas, and which ones reinforced them? How can I find positive gender representations in movies and on TV?
How did Shrirenu change from the beginning to the end of the movie? What does it mean to be willing to "work on yourself" in a relationship? Why is personal growth important for healthy partnerships?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming : July 11, 2025
- Cast : R. Madhavan , Fatima Sana Shaikh , Ayesha Raza Mishra
- Director : Vivek Soni
- Inclusion Information : Indian/South Asian Movie Director(s) , Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Netflix
- Genre : Romance
- Topics : Arts ( Music and Sing-Along )
- Run time : 114 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- Last updated : September 18, 2025
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