Parents' Guide to Above the Shadows

Movie NR 2019 111 minutes
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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Slow-burn fantasy/romance has some sex, sports violence.

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What's the Story?

ABOVE THE SHADOWS is a relationship drama that centers on Holly (played by Fina Strazza as a teen), a middle child who feels like the only person in the world who loves her is her mother. But her mom dies, and Holly starts to feel invisible. And then she somehow actually becomes invisible (she can see others, but they can't see or hear her -- even her dad and siblings). It's as if she doesn't exist. As a young adult, a lonely Holly (now Olivia Thirlby) makes a good living as a paparazzo: She gets great shots, since none of her subjects can see her. One night Holly tries to follow a celebrity target into a nightclub, but a bouncer stops her. Shocked that the bouncer can see her, she confronts him and realizes that he's Shayne (Alan Ritchson), an MMA fighter whose reputation and relationship Holly helped tank with a photo of him cheating on his then-girlfriend, Julianna (Megan Fox). Convinced that Shayne's ability to see her is a sign, Holly believes that if she can help him make a career comeback, she might regain her visibility.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 1 ):
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A slow-burn romance is rooted in a magical-realism premise in this quiet but affecting drama about comebacks and connection. Viewers have to suspend disbelief to go with the central plot point: Somehow, Holly exists in the world without being seen or heard by anyone ... except Shayne. Thirlby gives a nuanced performance as Holly, the loneliest girl in New York. A creature of habit, she doesn't realize what she's missing until she and Shayne meet. Ritchson (looking at first glance like a cross between Chris Hemsworth and Sam Worthington) usually plays vain, arrogant characters, but his role in Above the Shadows demands him to be both a confident fighter and an empathetic friend-turned-potential love interest.

Writer-director Claudia Myers' setup is interesting, and she casts the film well, but there are a few niggling issues -- like uneven pacing and a clichéd third-act resolution -- that keep the movie from being a true standout. Still, Myers definitely knows how to treat romance from the female gaze -- not because Ritchson is eye candy, but because the love story is more about intimacy than just physical attraction. Considering that the other woman in Shayne's life is Julianna (who turns back up in Shayne's life when he makes his comeback), it's a worthy takeaway that, even when compared to a supermodel, another woman is equally worthy of love. In the end, the two lead performances make this a better-than-expected relationship drama that's worth watching.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the violence in Above the Shadows. Is it necessary to the story? Why? Does seeing rough sports affect you the same way as watching other types of media violence?

  • What do you think about Holly and Shayne's relationship? How does it change? Why is honesty important in relationships?

  • Who, if anyone, is a role model in the movie? What character strengths do they display?

  • What do you think of Holly's job? Is it fair for her to make money the way she does? Why or why not? How does she excuse it?

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