Parents' Guide to American Gigolo

Movie R 1980 117 minutes
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Barbara Shulgasser-Parker By Barbara Shulgasser-Parker , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

'80s thriller has lots of sex, violence, language.

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What's the Story?

AMERICAN GIGOLO tells the story of Julian (Richard Gere), a former hotel pool boy who now dresses in Armani, drives a Mercedes, and services a stable of wealthy older women with enough disposable income to shower him with expensive gifts. His main procurer, Anne (Nina van Pallandt), is growing weary of his lack of gratitude. He won't take certain kinds of work, he wants a bigger piece of the take, and he seems to have forgotten that she's the one who taught him his deft manners and gave him his polished look. Although he says he won't do "kink" -- anything outside the sexual "norms" -- he accepts a last-minute job from a former pimp, Anne's professional rival. A wealthy man pays him to have rough sex with his wife while he watches. When that woman is murdered a few nights later, Julian becomes the prime suspect. Julian's lack of graciousness toward those who had helped him comes to haunt him as former allies abandon him in his time of need. On the run from the police, he finds himself friendless and desperate. His world slips from one of privilege and mastery to another in which he's treated as worthless trash, underscoring exactly how superficial his seeming success had been. He pushes away the one person with whom he has a legitimate bond, the wife of a politician (Lauren Hutton), but she declares her love and offers a fake alibi to save him.

Is It Any Good?

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This movie is as sleek and unfrilly as the 1980s Armani suits Julian wears. Writer-director Paul Schrader (he wrote Raging Bull and Taxi Driver) brings his renowned Calvinist sense of right and wrong to a world where goodness is more likely to be the punchline of a joke than a way of life. Gere gives an absorbing performance as a man who came from nothing but learned to use charm and manners to fit in with the elite. When he asks why he was framed, he's told he was "framable" -- Julian had "stepped on so many toes" no one cared about him. The lesson in American Gigolo is that someone who shows no loyalty will end up without allies in times of trouble.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about why sex is a commodity. Why do you think people pay for sex? In American Gigolo, wealthy people pay not only for sex but also for the company of young, attractive people. Why would someone pay for friendship?

  • What does the movie suggest is the mindset of a man who gets paid to have sex with a clientele of older wealthy women? Do you think he has feelings for his clients or are they just sources of income to him?

  • What do you think would drive a person to sell sexual favors rather than going into other lines of work?

  • Why do you think sex work is stigmatized? Do you think that prostitution should be legal, if all parties are willing? Why or why not?

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