Parents' Guide to Anemone

Movie R 2025 121 minutes
Anemone movie poster: A close up of Daniel Day-Lewis

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Joyce Slaton By Joyce Slaton , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Language, drinking, war trauma in grim family drama.

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What's the Story?

Written by Daniel Day-Lewis (who also stars) and his son Ronan Day-Lewis (who also directs), ANEMONE traces the emotional impact of war and how trauma can resound through generations. Ray Stoker (Daniel Day-Lewis) found living in his hometown unbearable after he returned from a stint in the English army in which he ran afoul of his superiors in a secretive incident. So for the last two decades, he's been living a hermit's existence in the damp, mossy woods of Northern England—hunting, using a wood-burning stove to keep warm and to cook, and washing in a nearby river. Now it's the 1980s, and his peaceful solitude is disrupted by his brother, Jem (Sean Bean). Jem has come to bring Ray a letter from his partner, Nessa (Samantha Morton), begging him to leave his self-imposed exile and come talk to her troubled son, Brian (Samuel Bottomly), who's going through a crisis that perhaps only Ray can help with.

Is It Any Good?

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Daniel Day-Lewis is as amazing to watch as always in this slow-burn drama that wrings emotional intensity from a narrative in which, frankly, not much happens. Ray is surprised but not horrified at Jem's arrival and pours him a cup of tea and a bowl of stew. Jem takes up a place on the floor in front of the fire, and the two mostly sit together in silence. Anemone doles out its information stingily, with spare dialogue and lots of significant pauses. Viewers have to pay attention to figure out what's going on, analyzing facial expressions and other clues. Eventually we realize that Ray fled his old life due to troubles connected with the (Irish) Troubles and that asking him to return to his boyhood home is a heavier request than it might at first seem.

Despite a story that's thin and undercooked, Anemone is full of enticing visuals: the dripping forest that surrounds Ray's cabin, purple and orange sunsets over vast green hills, an ice storm that arrives at the film's climax and rains fist-sized chunks of hail on the characters, and symbolizes ... what? It's clear from the long storm scene that it means something, as does another scene in which Ray explains to his brother that the delicate white flowers he propagates outside his cabin are the same ones their father grew: anemones (hey! that's the name of the movie!). Unfortunately, such visual and writerly flourishes can be opaque to viewers, and although both Bean and Day-Lewis make the most of their spare roles, there's just not enough story here to grab on to. Instead, we get long scenes in which we watch, say, Jem and Ray swimming in the ocean with moody, driving synth-and-guitar music over the top. It sounds like something's going to happen. But nothing happens. Anemone is a curiosity that's cool to look at and has an extraordinary cast, but ultimately it doesn't have enough meat on its bones to satisfy even the art-house audience who would watch almost anything with Day-Lewis in it.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Anemone's theme of intergenerational trauma. Can negative life experiences impact a person to the extent that their personality and parenting will suffer?

  • Anemone is a film without much dialogue. How does the movie tell you things without saying them out loud? How do setting, music, set dressing, and other elements combine to show you what's happening without telling you directly?

  • How does the movie depict drug use? Are there realistic consequences? Why does that matter?

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