Parents' Guide to Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret

Movie PG-13 2023 105 minutes
Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret: Movie Poster: Margaret (Abby Ryder Fortson) stands underneath the movie's title

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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 11+

Faithful Blume adaptation explores puberty and religion.

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Why Age 11+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 10+

Based on 22 parent reviews

Parents say that this film is a heartfelt and humorous adaptation of a beloved novel, effectively capturing the challenges of pre-teen girls navigating puberty, friendship, and family dynamics. Many families enjoy watching it together, sparking meaningful conversations about growing up, while maintaining a tone that resonates with both parents and children.

  • heartfelt adaptation
  • pre-teen challenges
  • family conversations
  • positive messages
  • strong performances
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age 11+

Based on 24 kid reviews

Kids say the movie is a warm and relatable coming-of-age story that explores the challenges of growing up, including themes of puberty, identity, and friendships in a respectful and age-appropriate manner. While many found it entertaining and educational for preteens, some viewers expressed concerns about certain scenes being inappropriate for the young actors involved, leading to mixed feelings about the film's portrayal of sensitive topics.

  • relatable themes
  • age-appropriate
  • mixed reviews
  • educational value
  • sensitive portrayal
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What's the Story?

Based on beloved author Judy Blume's classic 1970 coming-of-age novel, ARE YOU THERE GOD? IT'S ME, MARGARET follows 11-year-old Margaret Simon (Abby Ryder Fortson) during the tumultuous year in the 1970s that her family moves from Manhattan to the New Jersey suburbs. The only child of Jewish dad Herb (Benny Safdie) and Christian mom Barbara (Rachel McAdams), Margaret has been brought up without religion. But now she begins to search for God, sharing her questions and concerns -- mostly about her changing body, her friends, her crushes, and her desire for a sense of faith and belonging. She spends lots of time with queen-bee neighbor Nancy Wheeler (Elle Graham) and two other friends, Janie (Amari Price) and Gretchen (Katherine Kupferer), who have a secret club where they tell one another everything, including details about their crushes and when they get their periods. And as Margaret deals with her spiritual and physical changes, her mom wrestles with the transition from working art teacher to stay-at-home suburban mom.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 22 ):
Kids say ( 24 ):

Writer-director Kelly Fremon Craig's delightful adaptation of Judy Blume's timeless tale is a nostalgic, relevant look at early adolescence, friendship, spirituality, and parent-child relationships. Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret stays faithful to the classic source material but also freshens it up. The end result is entertaining and appropriate for both lifelong Blume devotees (looking at you, fellow Gen Xers) and a new generation of potential Margaret fans. Fortson is wonderful as Margaret, a curious and kind middle schooler who's just trying to find her way in the world. Kathy Bates is also fabulous as Margaret's brassy, Manhattan-dwelling grandmother, who misses being just blocks away from her beloved granddaughter. McAdams and Safdie have a surprising amount of chemistry as an interfaith couple whose difficult personal experiences led them to intentionally keep their daughter from knowing about religion rather than expose her to both of the faiths they were raised with -- or choose one for her.

Margaret's journey toward self-discovery is joyous, emotional, and funny. Most viewers will be able to relate to elements of the perspectives of the adult and/or the tween characters. Blume readers may find themselves laughing aloud as Margaret and her friends chant "I must, I must, I must increase my bust," or when Margaret gets her first kiss from the class's overly slick crush. Religion and puberty aren't always easy-to-navigate topics, but the movie, like the book, delves candidly into substantive issues without being preachy. The film honors Blume's frank approach to discussing periods, bras, health education, kissing, faith, and more. An ideal pick for parents and tweens/teens -- or for adults who grew up reading the book -- this movie proves that sometimes the right adaptation is worth the wait.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the theme of adolescence in Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret. How are puberty and coming-of-age a major part of the story? Do you think that makes the movie more relevant to and appropriate for tweens and teens than younger kids?

  • For those familiar with the book: What changes, if any, did you notice between the book and the film adaptation? What did you think of those changes? Why do you think the filmmakers felt they were necessary?

  • If you haven't read the classic book: Does the movie make you want to? The book has frequently been challenged or banned since it was published. Why do you think that might be?

  • How do Margaret and other characters demonstrate compassion, curiosity, and empathy? Why are those important character strengths?

  • Parents and kids: How can you use this movie as a launching pad to discuss puberty and adolescence?

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