Away We Go

 
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Parent-to-be drama meanders but wraps up poignantly.
  • Review Date: June 3, 2009
  • Rated: R
  • Genre: Drama
  • Release Year: 2009
  • Running Time: 97 minutes

What parents need to know

Positive messages

The lead characters are very mindful of the enormity of their responsibilities. But a mother ridicules her kids and talks openly about wanting to leave their father, and another couple is openly judgmental of other people's parenting decisions. Grandparents-to-be don't seem to care to stay for the birth of their first grandchild. A lead character flings a stream of insults at old friends he feels are
acting self-righteous. And a tipsy mom is rude to her children and much too
generous with back-handed compliments.

Violence
Not applicable
Sex

An earthy couple gives off a very sexual vibe; they drop hints about wanting sex in front of others. The wife inadvertently reveals her breast as she adjusts after breastfeeding. Another woman does a sensual dance on a stripper stage; it plays with melancholy, though, as her husband shares a tragedy with his friend while his wife dances.

Language

Frequent use of words like "s--t," "f--k," "damn," "c--t," "tits," "ass," "goddamn," and "oh my God." Overall, though the language is strong, it's less gratuitous than in some movies.

Consumerism
Not applicable
Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Some social drinking in bars and over dinner. One couple drinks all day long.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that older teens may be intrigued by this indie drama because of star John Krasinski and writers Dave Eggers and Vendela Vida. Its unvarnished look at different types of parenting, though exaggerated for cinematic effect, hits home and could very well prompt some internal analysis. Expect a range of strong language (including "s--t" and "f--k"), some sexuality (including a glimpse of a bare breast), and social drinking.

What's the story?

Unmarried but decidedly committed to each other, 33-year-old Verona (Maya Rudolph) and Burt (John Krasinski) learn they're having a baby, a discovery that sends them on a journey to a handful of cities to find out where they ought to settle down and raise their family. Their travels take them to Arizona, Wisconsin, Florida, and Canada, where acquaintances, friends, and relatives live. The visits are memorable for the catastrophes that Burt and Verona encounter, churning up worries both geographic and existential: Which is the best place to live and, more importantly, just what kind of parents will they become?

Is it any good?

QUALITY
 

Put it this way: It sure takes a long time for AWAY WE GO to get anywhere, but once there, the full impact of its storyline hits you behind the knees. Director Sam Mendes, who frames his scenes beautifully, meanders, and consequently, the film can grate like a too-long road trip. But, just like most long car rides, the destination feels worthy of all the trouble it took to get there, even if it doesn't erase it altogether.

Written by novelist Dave Eggers and his wife/fellow writer, Vendela Vida, the script feels fresh and new, stripped of the usual mileposts (the caricatures, the not-so-surprising twists). The actors do their work justice: Maggie Gyllenhaal is hilarious as an Earth mother far too earthy for her own good, and Krasinski is a lovable, slightly lost teddy bear of a boyfriend, wonderfully giving and sometimes inept. But the film is all Rudolph's. A comic veteran of Saturday Night Live, she's surprisingly potent in a drama; when the camera lingers on her, the worry is palpable. And when she gets her heartening ending, it's hard not to care.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about the movie's messages about parenthood. How is this movie different from typical movies that take on the issue of parenting? Does it have any definitive answers about what makes someone a good or bad parent?

  • What are Bur tand Verona's worries about parenthood? Does all their

  • fretting make them seem like they’ll actually be great parents -- or

  • just neurotic?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:June 5, 2009
DVD release date:September 29, 2009
Cast:John Krasinski, Maggie Gyllenhaal, Maya Rudolph
Director:Sam Mendes
Studio:Focus Features
Genre:Drama
Run time:97 minutes
MPAA rating:R
MPAA explanation:language and some sexual content

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Adult Written bywonder dove July 3, 2013
 

Expected more from it.

The movie was good, but I was expecting more of a heartwarming drama. It was a bit bland and I was surprised by the amount of sexual stuff throughout..didn't realize it was rated R. It should have been 4 stars out of five for the sex, not two like Commonsense suggests. Lots of sexual remarks including more than one use of the word "va*ina", a weird couple appear highly sexual who explains their thoughts on how it's fine to sleep with your partner with kids in the room...etc, sexy dancing, an oral sex scene with a couple in bed, breast-feeding older children...etc. Language is a huge issue, LOTS of profanity and curse words including tons of f-words and sh*t along with other explicit words. Quite a bit of drinking socially. The film is funny and somewhat enjoyable, but also drags on in some scenes and becomes boring. Only a couple characters were pretty likable, but overall good acting and worth watching if you're over the age of the 15/16 mark.
What other families should know
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking
Teen, 13 years old Written bydwiggit101 December 29, 2009
 

Good for pretty much everyone!

This movie has some infrequent strong language and a semi-sex scene at the beginning (No nudity.) It is a very sweet movie with some good insights on how to build good family values.
What other families should know
Too much swearing
Great messages
Adult Written byuytt2 October 26, 2009
 

rent it

i love the guy from the office he was funny for him but the rest of the movie is kind of boring bu sweet at the end
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