Parents' Guide to Babygirl

Movie R 2024 114 minutes
Babygirl Movie Poster: Close-up of the profiles of Nicole Kidman and Harris Dickinson looking at each other

Common Sense Media Review

Tara McNamara By Tara McNamara , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

May-December BDSM thriller has explicit sex, nudity.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 16+

Based on 4 parent reviews

age 16+

Based on 6 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In BABYGIRL, high-ranking CEO Romy (Nicole Kidman) is assigned to mentor a much younger intern, Samuel (Harris Dickinson). Their relationship quickly develops into a passionate affair, and the two switch up the power structure in the bedroom, with Samuel encouraging Romy to understand and accept her darker sexual fantasies.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 4 ):
Kids say ( 6 ):

Halina Reijn's "women are kinky too" erotic thriller is well made, but it offers a worrisome message at a worrisome time. Ever since the heyday of film noir, cinematic sex has been linked to danger—and, you have to ask, to what end? What's the impact of this messaging on audiences, movie after movie? It's important to ask, because those words are literally said out loud in Babygirl: that the element of danger is what Romy believes she needs to have a sexually pleasing experience.

Even more outrageous—and potentially damaging—is the idea Reijn projects that women really don't want to lead, but rather prefer to be led by men. Reijn's ambition is to make viewers uncomfortable by suggesting that women at the top of the power structure, who care for everyone else's needs—including their employees—may crave someone who will take care of them. That's an interesting idea worth exploring, but the intention falls apart with references to the fact that Romy grew up in a cult and has had "dark thoughts" since she was very young. This removes the story's ability to apply a social commentary to the demands put upon women. When this sex-centered project began, perhaps it was believed that women were finally in an equitable place, but releasing at a time when forces are removing women's rights is an appalling turn-off.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Babygirl compares to other erotic thrillers. How often are women the writers and directors of these projects? How was the female experience translated through a female filmmaker in this case?

  • How does entertainment affect our behavior? If movies depict women as giving up their agency and not meaning it when they say no, how could that shape the viewpoints of those watching?

  • Talk about power dynamics in the workplace. Why is it important that dating relationships don't breach the corporate structure?

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