Parents' Guide to Being the Ricardos

Movie R 2021 125 minutes
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Monique Jones By Monique Jones , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Behind-the-scenes drama falls short; strong language.

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age 14+

Based on 3 parent reviews

age 13+

Based on 4 kid reviews

What's the Story?

BEING THE RICARDOS is writer/director Aaron Sorkin's take on the story of Lucille Ball (Nicole Kidman) and Desi Arnaz (Javier Bardem). It follows them during a particularly tumultuous week on the set of I Love Lucy, with flashbacks revealing how their relationship started. While a gossip columnist tries to tie Ball to communism at the height of McCarthyism, Arnaz is rumored to have had an affair. Can their marriage -- and the show -- survive the drama?

Is It Any Good?

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Sorkin tries to bring viewers into the behind-the-scenes world of I Love Lucy, but overall this drama comes off as an expensive but flat look at an iconic power couple. Ball and Arnaz are up against a wall of controversy in Being the Ricardos thanks to Hollywood gossip linking Ball to communism and Arnaz to infidelity. And Sorkin is clearly interested in dissecting the politics and personal drama that went on behind the scenes of one of America's most popular shows. But it's lacking.

At worst, Being the Ricardos feels like Sorkin putting his Sorkin-isms into overdrive, including moments with the kind of circular, wordy dialogue that only serves Sorkin's sense of his own intelligence. And the way the characters are used feels a bit like what you see in Wes Anderson productions: They're like dolls for Sorkin to position and make talk, not true explorations of the people they're based on. Yes, as a whole, the cast does an impressive job, with Kidman and Bardem nailing Ball and Arnaz's voices and mannerisms (which helps to sell the illusion more than their looks actually do). But even with good actors giving their all, the film never rises above the Sorkin tropes, which makes it feel more tired than it should.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about perseverance and courage. How did Ball and Arnaz showcase these two traits during their careers?

  • How did racism affect Ball and Arnaz's marraige? How did they fight against it? Do you think things have changed since the time Being the Ricardos takes place?

  • How were women depicted in the film? How does it address the issues that working women dealt with in the 1940s and '50s?

  • Does the film show why Desilu Productions was considered so revolutionary at the time? How would you describe its impact?

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